For those of you who believe I've wronged my wife, you may very well be right, but this current situation runs both ways. Please read the excerpt from an earlier message of mine to a Courage friend before you judge me too harshly.....
I'm here (Midland, TX) visiting my brother and sister-in-law for the weekend. Dan, I told you that I love my wife, but not the whole story - ie, not the part about her jealously, paranoia, desire for control, etc. I love Nancy because she's the mother of our kids and I care what happens to her. However, even had I not "outted" myself to her, I couldn't see being married to the woman for the rest of my life. I'm heartsick, Dan, but it's something that would've happened later anyway - a heck of a lot of resentment has built up in me toward her because of her desire for control over me and our children. My trip to Houston last weekend was the first time in 18+ years of marriage that I've been away from her and the kids for a boys weekend out - not even been away with my brother, who BTW she pretty much detests....
Dear friends in Christ, I really am not some kind of heartless monster....
NEMO