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#297265 - 08/13/08 07:36 PM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
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Forum Keilbasa Sleuth
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In a word, converts and those who change jurisdictions often seek authenticity. Ok please explain.
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#297286 - 08/14/08 12:57 AM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
[Re: Orthodox Pyrohy]
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Does that need explaining?
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#297293 - 08/14/08 01:55 AM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
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Does that need explaining? "Who for us men and our salvation," "For he is good and loves mankind" Nuff said. Let's not tamper with what doesn't need to be tampered with.
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#297317 - 08/14/08 10:39 AM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
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Fr Deacon Paul, From a parish perspective -- God forbid, we won't reject 80% of our "non-contributing" pewsitters. But how do you focus on the "good" contributing converts (or cradle) parishioners without "firing" the 80%.
This is the dilemma of the "Mattingly" focus. He brings up some excellent points, but with failure one become responsible for the potential loss of souls.
Excellent points. In my own business experience, I have been involved in trying to implement the Pareto rule, and it often does backfire. But of course, a parish is a different situation than a business. What I think we must remember is that a parish is not primarily supposed to tailor itself to its members, but instead to the Deposit of Faith, found in the Scriptures and our Tradition. In doing so, many of the "80%" will come to be attracted to this more full experience of the faith. Will some of them also be turned away? Possibly, but it is not the duty of the Christian to work on harvesting, but instead to simply plant the seeds and let the Lord harvest the souls. In practical terms, what I mean is this: if a parish embraces their faith in a deeper and more traditional way (as many converts desire), this faithfulness to the Lord will reap many new souls and lead many of the "80%" into a deeper relationship with our Lord. However, if one simply desires a "lowest common denominator" practice of the faith, then the "20%' will be alienated, and the "80%" will not be challenged in any way to grow in their faith.
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#297327 - 08/14/08 12:55 PM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
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#297354 - 08/14/08 05:14 PM
Re: What Converts Want... What Rite Switchers Want...
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Excellent points. In my own business experience, I have been involved in trying to implement the Pareto rule, and it often does backfire.
But of course, a parish is a different situation than a business. What I think we must remember is that a parish is not primarily supposed to tailor itself to its members, but instead to the Deposit of Faith, found in the Scriptures and our Tradition. In doing so, many of the "80%" will come to be attracted to this more full experience of the faith. Will some of them also be turned away? Possibly, but it is not the duty of the Christian to work on harvesting, but instead to simply plant the seeds and let the Lord harvest the souls.
In practical terms, what I mean is this: if a parish embraces their faith in a deeper and more traditional way (as many converts desire), this faithfulness to the Lord will reap many new souls and lead many of the "80%" into a deeper relationship with our Lord. However, if one simply desires a "lowest common denominator" practice of the faith, then the "20%' will be alienated, and the "80%" will not be challenged in any way to grow in their faith........... (Francis) Amen. I agree wholeheartedly. In business I have seen poorly executed "80/20" business plans destroy the economic lives of the employees' families -- so too will poorly executed plans in a parish or Church destroy many spiritual lives. That is why we must pray to the Holy Spirit to inspire our clergy to truly become the "shepherd" of each individual in the parish. In general our parishes are small enough that this is possible. The shepherd should encourage those "on fire" so they can inspire the "quiet" souls so that their "lukewarmness' may turn to the fire of the Holy Spirit. This must be done in a manner that doesn't tempt envy or jealousy among the "old guard." This is easy for me to say, but extremely hard to accomplish on a human level. ......"but with God all things are possible." Not to change the subject, but I see a strong correlation between the "Why do converts leave" link that Byzantine TX left, and the "Medjugorje pilgrims" of a decade ago. They also came back to America "on fire" and ready for the fasting and prayer to aid their true conversion, only to be derided and avoided and told that they were being deceived by the devil. Those who persevered truly noticed a "quiet" conversion toward a "quieter but fulfilling" conversion in which the Mother of God led them to a better understanding of the gifts of the Holy Spirit. Fr. Deacon Paul
Edited by Paul B (08/14/08 05:15 PM) Edit Reason: difficulty with "smilies"
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