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#300472 - 09/30/08 09:44 PM My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will
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Brothers and Sisters:

Please keep Rachel and Will in your prayers. They learned tonight that the priest who was to witness their marriage on October 18th is being transferred tomorrow to oversee five parishes an hour and a half away. The pastor of the parish cannot meet with them until next week and--from what I've been told--isn't sure he can take on this added Mass that day.

Lord, have mercy. If this be Your Holy Will, please find a priest who can witness this marriage that these two have been praying for this past year a a half.

In Christ,

BOB

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#300473 - 09/30/08 09:59 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: theophan]
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I sit here, shaking my head at the thought that a pastor can be so oblivious to the consequences as to suggest to a parishioner that he can't or won't perform a planned marriage or else find another priest to do so, solely because it no longer fits neatly into a schedule.

My prayers for Rachel and Will, and for their families - especially my dear friend Bob and his wife Loretta - that this stress be lifted from them and the plans of these young people to unite in the Mystery of Matrimony be fulfilled.
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"One day all our ethnic traits ... will have disappeared. Time itself is seeing to this. And so we can not think of our communities as ethnic parishes, ... unless we wish to assure the death of our community."

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#300478 - 09/30/08 10:41 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: Irish Melkite]
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Originally Posted By: Irish Melkite
I sit here, shaking my head at the thought that a pastor can be so oblivious to the consequences as to suggest to a parishioner that he can't or won't perform a planned marriage or else find another priest to do so, solely because it no longer fits neatly into a schedule.

My prayers for Rachel and Will, and for their families - especially my dear friend Bob and his wife Loretta - that this stress be lifted from them and the plans of these young people to unite in the Mystery of Matrimony be fulfilled.


AMEN!
I am shaking my head, but speachless. LORD HAVE MERCY!

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#300488 - 09/30/08 11:24 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: Pani Rose]
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Indeed this seems a bit anomolous, if not uncaring and unpastoral--though I do not want to judge. May our Lord God intercede for a loving and deeply committed priest to preside at Rachel and Will's wedding...and may the stress that all are feeling be defeated.

In Christ,
Alice

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#300495 - 09/30/08 11:46 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: Pani Rose]
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Prayers...

james

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#300550 - 10/01/08 01:21 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: Jakub.]
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Please pray for the young priest who is being transferred, too. He's being sent to a remote area to supervise five--yes, you read that right--small parishes scattered at a great distance. He didn't receive the best of this either.

BOB

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#300551 - 10/01/08 01:54 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: theophan]
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Prayers for Rachel and Will and your whole family

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#300556 - 10/01/08 02:08 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her finace, Will [Re: Orthodox Pyrohy]
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Prayers for the young couple

I do hope this is sorted out swiftly . The most memorable day of their lives should be a happy one - and now this .

Words fail me

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#300578 - 10/01/08 09:06 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: Our Lady's slave]
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Lord have mercy!

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#300642 - 10/02/08 11:55 AM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: Pani Rose]
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My prayers go to the betrothed that their marriage will be celebrated as scheduled and start a blessed life together!

I feel certain that a priest will be made available by the parish on this unforgettable occasion.

Who knows, the re-assigned priest might be free and be willing to return just for one day to celebrate the sacrament of marriage of your daugther and her intended. Or, you may have a priest-friend who can assume the responsibility of performing the ceremony.

Amado


Edited by Amadeus (10/02/08 11:56 AM)

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#301574 - 10/15/08 11:57 AM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: Amadeus]
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Update:

Thank you all for your prayers. We learned that the pastor has met with Rachel and Will and all things are on track for Saturday.

Thanks be to God for His Great and Rich Mercy. Thanks be to the Mother of God for her powerful intercession.

BOB

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#301576 - 10/15/08 12:07 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: theophan]
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Glory to God! Glad to hear it...

Our happiness and prayers will be with you and your family this weekend. Please let us know how the big day goes. smile

In Christ,
Alice

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#302249 - 10/22/08 11:51 AM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: Alice]
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Thanks be to God for His many blessings and great mercy.

Rachel and Will were married Saturday at 2 p.m. with a large church full of family and friends. Everyone commented about the ceremony. Loretta sang the Responorial Psalm and Allelulia--something people said they'd never seen before. (As you may recall, my wife and her family are very gifted musicians and singers.) I read the portion of the Epistle

"If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not love . . ."

at Rachel's request. I wrote the General Intercessions for them and one of Loretta's sisters read them. The pastor of the parish remarked about all our efforts.

The reception was a great success and all the guests remarked about what a wonderful time they had.

The best part is that each and every person traveled home safely and in peace.

Thanks again to the Lord for His Great and Rich Mercy, His constant Providential Hand in our lives, His blessing on this new family being formed, and for all the blessings He has showered on our family.

In Christ,

BOB

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#302256 - 10/22/08 12:10 PM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: theophan]
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Bob, joining you in prayers for this wonderful moment.

For the bride, groom, and family..

God is good.

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#302318 - 10/23/08 03:02 AM Re: My daughter, Rachel, and her fiance, Will [Re: Porter]
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Dear Bob,

Glory to God for all good things!!! smile

God bless the newlyweds! I am so happy for you and your family.

Thank you for sharing what sounds like a very special ceremony...

In Christ,
Alice

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