Originally posted by RomanRedneck:
Ok, Ray, I've read Cassaude and Fromm. Both of them twice. But I am having trouble getting away from the notion that i must 'do something about it.' If I'm understanding you correctly, the old protestant hymn had got it right when it proclaims "Trust and Obey for there's no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey." After all, if it is God who works in me (us) then I can either cooperate with him by submitting to his Providence or I can frustrate his plans by trying to do it myself.
Am I understanding you correctly?
Jason
>Both of them twice.
Wow. Well - you must have liked something about them to read them - twice! But I admit I re-read them every few years.
Caussade = Providence = Reality (as a person)
Fromm = real human love = charity
>But I am having trouble getting away from
>the notion that i must 'do something about it.'
We all sin (I assume this is what you are talking about) and so we should all try (with reason) to do something to �fix� that. But - at the same time knowing that it will not get entirely fixed - until God sends the way in which it will get fixed and we cooperate with it when it comes.
While trying - there are some things we should NOT do.
We should always try - reasonably.
We should be as forgiving with ourselves as we would be forgiving and understanding of someone else in the same situation. We must never assign to ourselves a judgment and sentence (self punishment). We must not let ourselves get into depression (over our failures) that goes on to long.
So let us imagine we wake up and begin our day. Let me use myself as an example (I am just making an example and not claiming sainthood here).
I get up and don�t feel like going to work. But I need to work to get money to take care of family necessities. So - here - is the first thing that God wants me to do - go to work and support my family. And so (while I would rather stay home myself) my first bit of cooperation with the Will of Providence - is for me to get my butt to work (as that is the means God has given me to support my family).
Score �1� for Ray for cooperating with the Will of God!
Obedience� is when you do n ot know the why and where-fore. This - is a servant.
Cooperation� is when you do know something about the why and wherefore (I know that working is my means to support my family).
So let me change that to �Trust (in Providence) and Cooperation�.
So I go to work and while there - it comes to be that I had (unknowingly) made a mistake last week by over greasing two motors. The motors are burnt - will need replacing (at great cost) and who-ever did it (over greased them) is probably in big trouble and may even be fired!
Now - the normal human tendency is to think �OK - who might figure out that it was me? No one! Haha! So I can keep my mouth shut and let this whole thing go away - and not risk my job! Yippee! Heck - they are not even asking �who did it?� so I need not say �Me�!�
But while I am thinking that I could let this whole thing slide - my conscience says to me �admit you did it - and accept any consequences involved. Yup� you MIGHT get fired - but because you trust me - I want you to admit that it was you - and accept what-ever humiliation that would be - and perhaps I may never reward you for your honesty.�
NOW - HERE is a pickle!
Absolutely no one (not one! Is asking me to admit it was me� no one is trying to find out who made the mistake� I will look like a stupido if I say it was me� the whole thing could just slide away� and MY OWN CONSCIENCE is prodding me to say �I did that mistake� - with no promise of reward and every reason to believe it will not go well for me.
What - do - I do???
In this case, because of the clear prompting from my conscience - I admit it was me - and I accept anything that Providence (he is in charge) may meat out (through my boss) from it.
THAT is cooperation. It was also faith - because there was no promise of a reward (that things would turn out good for me).
Now notice something.
I was aware that Providence had made this situation. After all - I had really thought that I had done the motors properly. I was also aware that it might be Providence (prompting me through conscience) to admit it was me - when there was no human reason to admit it was me. (no one was asking).
So in this particular situation - I was called - to - do something (by my conscience).
Now - it makes absolutely no difference - how - this episode turned out. Me - being fired - or - me keeping my job. It makes no difference because Providence (who arranged the coincidence of the entire situation) has the power to fix it in any way he wants to. Fired on Monday from one job and coincidentally hired on Tuesday to a better job (if he wants to do that). And knowing God can do that - if he does not do that - he has good reasons not to do that. Now - THAT is real abandonment (abandone to God any excessive desires for something to turn out in some particular way).
While what I describe above is perhaps and extreme case - I want you to notice 1) the coincidence of the situation 2) the promptings of conscience.
Now here is a more mundane example�
It is 4pm and I am ready to leave work and go home and relax because it has been a hard day. My boss comes and wants me to stay and work late on some special project. So now - who?
Q: who is asking me to stay and work late?
A: my boss is.
Q: Is it God (using my boss) asking me?
The answer to that lay in using some human reason along with examining things via conscience.
And so a question of �obedience� here is not really applicable - because God wants us to use our human reason to reason things out and hold up things to conscience while doing that.
IF - my wife was very sick and my boss wanted me to work overtime - and that would harm here - then God requires me to say �Nope� and leave work and care for my wife.
IF - we need to money to pay bills and (while tired) no harm would come to me and my wife is fine at home - then God is offering me a way to pay the bills I should pay. My conscience says �Stay a few hours�.
There are many consideration which we might bring up in our reasoning - but the one you should go by is the one which is the most cooperative with your conscience. And IF you do that - you can NOT go wrong.
Eventually - this (reasoning and checking with conscience) becomes a habit. And you shift over from making all you decisions from promptings of self-providence - to promptings of conscience-Providence.
Now THAT - can seem to be a scary thing. After all - it is an unknown (Oh my dear! What will conscience say about things to day? How can I be sure my needs and securities are taken care of!!??)
The answer to that question lay in this �See the birds of the air? They neither sow (plan) nor reap (work hard) and I take care of them beautifully. Well - if I take care of them (who are not as important as you are) then how much more - do I take care of YOU?� - plenty more. But he takes care of your REAL needs (that is - what it takes to be formed into his own likeness) and wants to wean us from the false needs that we are so convinced we can not live without.
This all - takes - time (although he can do this violently and quickly - he prefers not to do it like that because the results of that violence is not a lasting result).
He does not violate our free will. And so how long this takes is really up to us (the more cooperative the faster). Yet - Providence has to arrange the whole thing (including what - when - how - etc..) and that decision is his and not ours. Neither should we concern ourselves with what he should be fixing - right now. Leave that all up to Providence.
Now - I have said all this in a mix of ways. I have included scriptural things and images.
Do you wish me to - leave God out of it entirely - and put it in a way in which you should still see - that even if there were no God - this is still the absolute best way to live... do you??
-ray