Eleison me, O Theos!
Dear Alice,
Take heart. A few Greek-Catholic priests of my acquaintance went to Brookline for a conference about something or other, some ten years ago, and were absolutely appalled to realize after a day or to by the realization that the Greek Orthodox clergy took it for granted that the women accompanying the Greek-Catholic clergy were, ah, "girl-friends". Finally, someone who knew people on both sides of what was rapidly becoming a highly ugly situation successfully urged the Greek Orthodox clergy to apologize, quickly, before things got any further out of hand.
One reason may have been that the Greek Orthodox clergy were all dressed like Protestant ministers, while the Greek-Catholic clergy were all dressed like priests.
Incognitus