Eli, excellent, excellent. And that's it - prayer is the heart of community and communion in our Christian life. It is what defines our identity as Eastern Christians.
It is the beginning of any realistic idea of living out our Christian existence. We may not have money always to give someone, but we can give them that jewel of prayer, and do it with them in the most complete sense of Christian charity and love.
Charity, social concerns, etc. all come from, radiate from our intimate communion with Our Lord which we realize at His Holy Altar. With that love we conquer the world through the Paschal Mystery of our Risen Lord, which we imbibe ourselves in.
All of our Christian life begins and comes out of prayer. What did Christ do before his public ministry - prayer and fasting in the desert. What did he do at the Transfiguration - went to Mount Tabor to pray. The beginning of the Passion began with - prayer in the Garden. Not just coincidence, I'm afraid.
Dan, I feel this is one aspect that may actually hinder us i.e. attachment to the physical structure and location. In the Midwest we just don't have the clergy and parish locations to serve everyone.
I for one am quite traditional about the physical architecture of the parish, facing east, nice iconostasis, no pews, etc. Anyone who knows me very well knows where I stand on all that.

That indeed has to be restored if we are to be taken seriously as those who are living members of a venerable tradition. No problem there. You have to have the parish as the source of liturgical life to connect the domestic church with.
That entails, however, actually having the liturgical life at the parish that fosters the vitality and spiritual growth in the domestic church. That necessitates our fidelity to what the Holy Father has admonished us, the return to our authentic liturgical traditions.
We are sometimes seen as schizophrenic because of it. People ask why this church doesn't have an iconostasis, or why that parish doesn't have Vespers but rather Saturday evening Divine Liturgy. What can we say? It should be this way, but in this place it is that way....
The implications of what we are talking about here are quite radical, not only for clergy but for the laity.
I see the parish as rather the center radiating out the evangelical spirit like a light than drawing everything within.
As I learned many years ago from the Old Believers, the keeping of the beauty and fidelity to the received tradition is not reliant at all on the conventional model of a fixed parish. It is in the heart.
Our homes truly are domestic churches and we can make them lights in the darkness, little communities even when the parish may only be accessible a few times a year, or when that house is down the street from the parish church. We have to go out and pray with them.
Our Constantinopolitan tradition is reliant on the transmission of the lex credendi through the lex orandi. That's just how it is. The two greatest catechetical works in the Constantinopolitan tradition, Cyril of Jerusalem and Germanos of Constantinople, are both completely centered on the Liturgy as the vehicle of the catechesis.
So it is a double edged sword. The parish has to be the bastion of prayer and liturgical life. That is the source of everything. It's a "mini cathedral" composed of the "mini parishes" that are the domestic churches. So that has to be a priority, i.e. returning our parishes to those bastions of prayer they should be.
Regarding the domestic church, if we do not have our OWN domestic churches and the families dwelling within them in order, it all falls on its face, not only locally but at the parish level as well. The two are in intimate communion, one part of the other, and any weakness in one precipitates to the other.
Can our families pray together? We really need to get that in order as a priority. Can we invite our friends over for a meal and then ask them to pray Compline with us, etc.? Do we know someone who is sick that we can go and say the Canon for those who are sick? There are an infinite number of possibilities thanks to the richness of our tradition.
With our beautiful prayer and depth of theology contained in them, we have the most powerful means of spreading the Good News about our Lord.
Sorry about the rambling.