Pay attention to the things over which you have control and leave the rest to God seems to be the advice of Ecclesiastes. After all, you're going to die soon anyway!
PrJ,
I use the Douay-Rheims Catholic Bible.
It is clear to me that you and I did get a different message from Ecclesiates.
What I got out of Ecclesiates, very general terms here:
Detach yourself from the world, don't fall into the traps. Look to the things of GOD, those things not of this world. You cannot find fulfillment in this world. The world offers you folly. This world offers lots of allurements, but remember your deathbed and you will make better decisions and live for GOD.
When I am dying, am I really going to worry about the superficial items in my life or and I am going to be concerned at my OFFENSES against GOD? After all, I know the judgment is coming and now I remember all those times I thought of myself and I could have been thinking about GOD.
So if I remember the Four Last Things, death, judgment, hell and Heaven, I will live a different life. This is the peace we receive by living a life where GOD TAKES THE FIRST PLACE.
Blessed be our GOD!
jody