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I have come to a very difficult decision. I will be taking my family to an OCA Church for vespers this coming Saturday. This will be the first step toward the exploration of joining the Holy Orthodox Church. As I have said before, the RDL is the final nudge that I needed. It is very likely that I would have waited for a retraction, (and I do believe there will be a retraction), but I cannot wait for ten, twenty, or even thirty years because I have a small child to raise. I refuse to raise my child in a Church that has surrendered to the secular, humanistic, politically correct agenda of the radical feminists. My child deserves to learn and to pray in the language of our Fathers. I believe there are many concerns with this revision, but the inclusive language is a travesty! This is not an easy decision since I have been in communion with Rome all of my life, but it is a calling, and I must follow the call. There is no doubt in my mind that the revisionists had nothing but good intentions when they decided to re-translate the Divine Liturgy, but my heart tells me that the result has wounded the Church. Fr Benedict Groeschel states that sometimes extremely intelligent men commit extremely large errors. He says that "the highest mountains cast the largest shadows".
I will never stop praying for the Ruthenian Catholic Church and all of the Eastern Catholic Churches. I urge all who will remain to never stop fighting the promulgation and approval of this RDL. I will pray that the Lord gives you strength to fight the good fight.
Peace and blessings to all of you, Recluse
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Recluse,
May you and your family find peace in your new Church. Go with God (S'Bohom) and Xpucmoc Bockpece!
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Recluse,
May you and your family find peace in your new Church. Go with God (S'Bohom) and Xpucmoc Bockpece! Thank you Ungcsertezs! Many years!
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but I cannot wait for ten, twenty, or even thirty years because I have a small child to raise. I refuse to raise my child in a Church that has surrendered to the secular, humanistic, politically correct agenda of the radical feminists. My child deserves to learn and to pray in the language of our Fathers. This is the most heart breaking part of the post. It is ashame to see anybody driven away, but the most important demographic are those with children, and unfortunately this demographic is rare in our churches so we can't really afford to lose too many of this group. Don't think for one second that Recluse is alone in this sentiment. I know of many of our young that are disillunsioned (rightly or wrongly) by this revision. Let us pray that the revision is not the final nail in the coffin of our future. I'm also growing weary of comments regarding the 'good intentions' of the revisionists. To my fellow lovers of Holy Tradition, this is a liberal thought process. Liberals are always asking to be judged by their intentions rather than by thier results. The results of this misguided revision will unfortunately be the same as most liberal initiatives, poor results. One of which is our church, which cannot afford to loose any more of its young families, loosing its young families. And here we have yet another example. Hospodi Pomiluj! Monomakh
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And what will become of the Ruthenian Metropolia in ten years? Will it be just a few churches struggling without vocations (and a married priesthood) that will have to beg the Roman Catholic bishops for the use of Bi-ritual priests? I shudder to think what the future will become for this once vibrant Eastern Catholic Church.
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GOD be with you Recluse! Prayers will be offered for you and your family!
I can perfectly understand your responsibilities as a parent. I share your concern.
God be with you Recluse! May GOD strengthen and comfort you and yours!
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I'm also growing weary of comments regarding the 'good intentions' of the revisionists. To my fellow lovers of Holy Tradition, this is a liberal thought process. Liberals are always asking to be judged by their intentions rather than by thier results. The results of this misguided revision will unfortunately be the same as most liberal initiatives, poor results. One of which is our church, which cannot afford to loose any more of its young families, loosing its young families. And here we have yet another example. Greetings Monomakh, Christ Is Risen! I understand what you are saying here. I am a major opponent of this revision. However, I find it dificult to believe that the revisionists have taken on this "work" as a way to put the final nail in the coffin and set the course for the extinction of the Ruthenian Catholic Church. I have heard some say that it was a work of pride and ego. I have heard others say that it is a work of ecumenism in an effort to attract disillusioned women back to the Church (however I have never met one of these disillusioned women unless they were extreme radical feminists). Whatever the motivation, whether it be a sincere belief in a "better" translation---pride and egoism---ecumenism--or liberal seminary education---I do not believe it was done in an effort to end the Church. The result may indeed end the Church because I believe the fruit of this revision will continually rot with time, but I do not believe it was the revisionist's intention. I am not defending the revisionists nor do I want to judge them as individuals--I do not know what is in their hearts. But I am convinced that the revision as set forth and promulgated and approved for the Ruthenian Catholic Church, is a terrible, terrible, error. Blessings to you, Recluse
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I understand your move. Rod Dreher, a writer in Dallas, left Catholicism for Orthodoxy because of similar reasons. I opted to stop attending the Ruthenian parish in my area once I caught wind of the RDL. I knew it was a done deal. The libs always win on such matters in the short term, but God wins in the long run (conclusively too) I wonder though: It strikes me that the issue is really one of culture rather than ecclesiology, doctrine, etc. Given this, what happens when Americanism/modernity/whatever-you-wanna-call-it seeps into Orthodoxy? Something to keep in mind is that Orthodoxy has experienced a heavy influx of converts from mainstream American culture over the past decade. These converts are often times people who carry the ideology of feminism/democracy/egalitarianism with them. How long do you think Orthodoxy will survive without its own, ahem, "revisions" to venerable worship and customs? Are you really sure that the American rot hasn't already set in? These are some of the questions I've wrestled with in deciding whether to remain Catholic or not. The grass always looks greener. But unlike you Recluse, I've no children or spouse to worry about, so I certainly see your incentive for acting is greater than mine. I wish you and your family the best and am happy for you.
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Recluse,
My statement wasn't only to you as I've seen it written many times by many other people.
Now I can hear others claiming that I am saying that the intentions are not good. That is not what I am saying. Can we all agree that the intentions were good, the liturgy has been promulgated, and discuss what the ramifications are now? And that is what I am bringing up, what the results will be. Wouldn't we have more positive results if all the time, money, and effort went towards evangelization?
As for Recluse, I pray that you and your family will have a spiritual and rewarding journey.
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GOD be with you Recluse! Prayers will be offered for you and your family!
I can perfectly understand your responsibilities as a parent. I share your concern.
God be with you Recluse! May GOD strengthen and comfort you and yours! Thank you corsair, Your prayers mean a lot to me. I need them--especially at this crossroads in my life. As a Catholic, born and raised Roman Catholic and canonically changed to the Eastern Church, there is a hesitancy with breaking communion with Rome. But I must do what I feel is best for my family. Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner! I will pray for you also, corsair!
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Now I can hear others claiming that I am saying that the intentions are not good. My apologies--I am not accusing you of such a thing. Can we all agree that the intentions were good, the liturgy has been promulgated, and discuss what the ramifications are now? Yes. This is where attention needs to be directed. Wouldn't we have more positive results if all the time, money, and effort went towards evangelization? Yes. It seems like a no-brainer. That is the most frustrating part. As for Recluse, I pray that you and your family will have a spiritual and rewarding journey. Thank you my friend.
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I wonder though: It strikes me that the issue is really one of culture rather than ecclesiology, doctrine, etc. Given this, what happens when Americanism/modernity/whatever-you-wanna-call-it seeps into Orthodoxy? It has already been dealt with in the Orthodox Church. I cannot recall the link, so I will tell you by memory. In 1997, the S.C.O.B.A revised the Nicene Creed to delete the word "men" so that it read: "for us and for our salvation..." The people and the clergy were not happy, but this horizontal inclusive language remained for about eight years. Then, another change occured. The Creed was changed again to read that Jesus "became human". There was widespread outrage from the clergy and the people in response to this vertical inclusive language. Hence, about eight years after the horizontal inclusive language, the Creed was changed back to its original and ancient translation. So you see, I don't expect the Orthodox to have this problem again anytime soon.  P.s.--note the progression from horizontal inclusive language to vertical inclusive language. I believe that once you open the liberal radical feminist door, it is very difficult to close again. Better to keep it locked up tight!
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I have come to a very difficult decision. I will be taking my family to an OCA Church for vespers this coming Saturday. This will be the first step toward the exploration of joining the Holy Orthodox Church. As I have said before, the RDL is the final nudge that I needed. It is very likely that I would have waited for a retraction, (and I do believe there will be a retraction), but I cannot wait for ten, twenty, or even thirty years because I have a small child to raise. I refuse to raise my child in a Church that has surrendered to the secular, humanistic, politically correct agenda of the radical feminists. My child deserves to learn and to pray in the language of our Fathers. I believe there are many concerns with this revision, but the inclusive language is a travesty! This is not an easy decision since I have been in communion with Rome all of my life, but it is a calling, and I must follow the call. There is no doubt in my mind that the revisionists had nothing but good intentions when they decided to re-translate the Divine Liturgy, but my heart tells me that the result has wounded the Church. Fr Benedict Groeschel states that sometimes extremely intelligent men commit extremely large errors. He says that "the highest mountains cast the largest shadows".
I will never stop praying for the Ruthenian Catholic Church and all of the Eastern Catholic Churches. I urge all who will remain to never stop fighting the promulgation and approval of this RDL. I will pray that the Lord gives you strength to fight the good fight.
Peace and blessings to all of you, Recluse As one who made the move to Orthodoxy 5 months ago, I am praying for you and wish you well in your journey. May you find the same peace and happiness that I have in my new spiritual home. Christos Voskrese!
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As one who made the move to Orthodoxy 5 months ago, I am praying for you and wish you well in your journey. May you find the same peace and happiness that I have in my new spiritual home.
Christos Voskrese! Voistinu Voskrese! Thank you Etnick! You are an inspiration to me and your prayers are appreciated!
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Following in Etnick's footsteps...
As one who made the move as well one year ago myself. (Family concerns were also a major part of prompting my return to Orthodoxy.) You and your family will be remembered in my prayers. I hope you find the same joy that we have found.
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Following in Etnick's footsteps...
As one who made the move as well one year ago myself. (Family concerns were also a major part of prompting my return to Orthodoxy.) You and your family will be remembered in my prayers. I hope you find the same joy that we have found.
Chris Thank you Chris. I can already feel everyone's prayers lifting up, and strengthening me and my family. Blessings to all!
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I will never stop praying for the Ruthenian Catholic Church and all of the Eastern Catholic Churches. I urge all who will remain to never stop fighting the promulgation and approval of this RDL. I will pray that the Lord gives you strength to fight the good fight.
Peace and blessings to all of you, Recluse Dear Recluse, This hits very close to home with me. I am limited as to what I can say here but I am unwelcome in my home parish, so there's more than the liturgy that impels me to spend my Sundays in an Orthodox parish. But there's more than a liturgy, or any person or persons, between me and my Church, so I keep going on in this shadowland where I do not recognize a formal schism, but do respect the fact of the schism and try my best to understand how that plays out in very practical and pastoral terms. Add to that the fact that I dearly love the parish where I attend and the priest who shepherds us, and you'll have some idea of who I am and what I do. In short, were I on better terms in my home jurisdiction, I would be attending both and doing what I could to be active in both. Wednesday of Great and Holy Week was very difficult for me. I found myself standing before Father saying that I wanted him to receive me into Orthodoxy. His eyes popped open and then hooded again and he said "Mary, you must convert." Something inside of me sagged, for I knew what was coming. What he meant by "convert" was that there are a list of things that I must swear are false in the Catholic Church before he will receive me into Orthodoxy. I sat and listened to the list after everyone left. Some things are indeed not what the Catholic Church teaches and so I would have no difficulty in swearing that they are false, because they are false. But there were two things that I simply cannot swear. I cannot swear that papal primacy as my Church teaches it, and as I understand it, is false. I cannot swear that the Immaculate Conception is a false teaching. I could keep the Immaculate Conception as a private devotion, leaving it to the hierarchs to work out the doctrinal issues in time. I could privately continue to accept the pope as the supreme primatial authority in the Church here on earth. But to publicly swear before a priest of Orthodoxy to an item list, even if I did not have to swear an item list at the time of my Chrismation, that the Church of my Baptism is false is just not possible for me to do. Father suggested that I let the Holy Spirit work for a while. I laughed to myself and thought that perhaps if I listened a little more closely, I just might quit trying to continue this one woman crusade that I started some years ago. It is not always easy to determine self-will from the will of God. All that to say that you and your family have my prayers. Please do not become as so many do, who move from the Catholic Church to Orthodoxy. Remember where you came from. Keep those who remain in the Church of their Baptism, in your prayers. Blessings, with great affection, in Christ, Mary
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Following Ethnick and Job, I also say God bless you and welcome to Orthodoxy. I became Orthodox just this past Theophany of 2007. If you have any questions about making the move, just let me know. God bless.
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But there were two things that I simply cannot swear. I cannot swear that papal primacy as my Church teaches it, and as I understand it, is false. I cannot swear that the Immaculate Conception is a false teaching. Greetings Mary, Your concerns are valid. In fact, they are the reasons I am not Orthodox at this very moment. However, I have in time come to a different understanding. Through much prayer and study, I have come to look at the Church as it was before the schism (which began many years before the official 1054 date). I do not see a papal primacy/supremacy. I see a primacy of honor where all bishops are equal. I have read many quotes from Church Fathers (ie: St John Chrysostom) which seem to indicate a papal primacy, but many more quotes (including St John Chrysostom) which seem to indicate a primacy of honor. So that one is not a problem for me. The immaculate conception is an interesting doctrine. Even though we are a Church in communion with Rome, I have never been able to prompt a Ruthenian Catholic priest to admit to me that we adhere to this doctrine as the Roman Catholics do (although I am sure they are out there). The problem lies with the Orthodox vs Catholic understanding of original sin. I have never been able to wrap my mind around the differences. Some Orthodox will tell you that Our Lady was purified at the Annuciation. Others will tell you that she never sinned, but was born in the same state as any other human because Jesus received His true human nature from her. In other words, they leave this understanding undefined and wrapped in mystery. I am okay with these understandings--the veneration of Our Lady in the Orthodox Church is next to none. (But of course you already know this). What year was the immaculate conception defined in the Catholic Church? 1854? I am very comfortable with the acceptance of everything set forth in the first seven oecumenical councils. But to publicly swear before a priest of Orthodoxy to an item list, even if I did not have to swear an item list at the time of my Chrismation, that the Church of my Baptism is false is just not possible for me to do. This one is interesting and indeed the most difficult for me. I will always believe that the Catholic Church has apostolic succession, sufficient grace, and valid sacraments--will I be denied acceptance into Holy Orthodoxy because of this belief? Most jurisdictions of Holy Orthodoxy will accept my baptism and bring me into the Church through confession and chrismation. My baptism is accepted through Ekonomia but will I be expected to confess that the Catholic Church is a false Church? I thank you for your prayers dear Mary, Recluse
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What he meant by "convert" was that there are a list of things that I must swear are false in the Catholic Church before he will receive me into Orthodoxy. I find this hard to understand, as I did nothing more than make a profession of faith. I did not have to explicitly reject anything. It was a positive affirmation. I don't even understand on what basis one could say the IC is false for instance as it was never addressed in the councils.
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Mary,
Your post moved me greatly. I found myself in a similar position some 8 years ago, standing before an Orthodox clergyman whom I deeply respect and whose friendship was and is very important to me, asking about the possibility of being received. He told me that he would chrismate me the following week if I desired it, but his caution to me was the difficult state of Orthodox Church polity and the need to consider the benefit of a unified magisterial voice pointing to official teaching. IOW, if I desired full communion with Orthodoxy, he wanted me to enter with both eyes open to its difficulties.
For me it is always what Orthodoxy affirms that has had the greatest appeal, and what it (or at least some within it) denies that I have never been quite able to overcome. The issues you mention are precisely my issues - the ones that cause me to remain where I am.
With that said, I am perplexed by the title of this thread: "farewell to my bretheren". Is entry into communion with the Orthodox Church a "farewell"? Perhaps...or perhaps not. I suppose it depends upon what one denies.
God bless.
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"This one is interesting indeed and the most difficult. I will always believe that the Catholic Church has apostolic succession, sufficient grace, and valid sacraments--will I be denied acceptance into Holy Orthodoxy because of this belief? Most jurisdictions of Holy Orthodoxy will accept my baptism and bring me into the Church through confession and chrismation. My baptism is accepted through Ekonomia but will I be expected to confess that the Catholic Church is a false Church?"
Before I was chrismated, my priest laid it all out as far as what the Orthodox church believes and doesn't believe. But I did not publicly renounce the Catholic church. The ceremony was more or less a standard chrismation. It involved confession, chrismation, tonsuring, and being churched. Hope this helps.
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Recluse and All who suffer similar sentimets and discernments,
My family heritage in the Ruthenian Byzantine Catholic Church via the married priesthood can be traced back 300 years. With that in mind, and being a "thoroughbred" Ruthenian Byzantine Catholic, I deeply regret the fact that the Church of my own heritage can no longer serve as the spirtual home for your family. Without in any way presuming to assuage the depth of your current consternation or to trivialize the genuineness of your discernment on behalf of your family and of yourself, I must nonetheless implore you to consider remaining with the Ruthenian Byzantine Catholic Church. My reasons for saying this to you are the following:
1. As The Sultan of Suede so wisely cautioned, you may find similar types of challenges already in place in the Orthodox Church, perhaps even in some ways more formidable than in the Ruthenian Church. (See Fr. Thomas Hopko's various responses to feminist agendas in the Orthodox Church.)
2.Your leaving at this time will sevrve to reinforce what I believe is the perception that our Church has of the discontent over the RDL:
"Oh, its just a few nut cases on the forum. Good Riddens! We will be better off without them. The nerve of THOSE people trying tell us how to run OUR Church. Who do they think they are?!!" Also: "It's just a few arch-conservative disgruntled former Latin Rite Catholics who were just passing through our Church until the Old Latin Rite comes back. They have no real committment to OUR Church. See! See! I told you so! As soon as OUR Church changed anything they ran! They were just opportunists. I knew they wouldn't stay." We are better off without those troublemakers."
If this is the perception on the part of our Church and if indeed this is not an accurate perception, the question is how will our Church develop an accurate perception unless our Church leaders hear from EVERY person who is at the same point as Recluse and others? Of course, a person's case has to be respectful and credible. Being against change simply because it is change or "I have been singing this music for 45 years and I am not about to change" will simply be disqualified at the get go. It will also serve to diminish our Church's receptivity to legitimate cases.
More and more it is being revealed to me (I ACTUALLY hear religioius and laity alike say this) that to many it does not matter if our Church dies. Even if great numbers of people leave our Church I believe that some in our Church have given up. They have resigned themselves to what is perceived to be the inevitable fate of the Ruthenian Church (and for that matter ALL Eastern Christian Churches in the western world! This I have actually heard from Orthodox!!)
I actually hear: "As long as the Church is here for me I do not care what happens afterward." Many parts of our Church would in fact rather die than change. Many people have no problem clutching onto what they believe is "our Church" and taking that portion of it to their graves with them. I always thought that this was unthinkable or that you could inspire people to open up by cautioning them against taking our Church to their graves with them. But I am learning that taking our Church to their graves with them is what they are perfectly content to do.
But, this could actually be GOOD NEWS! This could be the major pruning, the "razing to the ground and rebuilding" that I will never stop advocating for and praying for. I believe that we will decrease, implode, come to the brink of extinction and maybe we NEED to! But, I believe that in these ashes there will be burning coals remaining as there are even now, few but they still do burn. These few remaining burning coals will be able to start a new grassfire for the Eastern Catholic Churches who will be at first smaller and fewer but mightier. So, as regrettable as dying may seem,it may actually be necessary as the precursor to the real "New Evangelization" of the Eastern Churches. Funny how I should be pointing to a dying-rising rhythm for the future of our Church during Bright Week??!!
So, Recluse and others, I simply implore you to be a part of the "Phoenix" that I believe will rise out of the ashes of what we have known as the Eastern Catholic Churches. You do not owe your children a "perfect" Church. You owe them the invaluable life forming principles of Dad's example of committment to the truth and how love of anything means riding the crests and low points, of standing in there and giving it your all, of making that contribution that is uniquely yours, of making a difference and finishing the story, of realizing the destiny of a Church which perhaps you actually did not choose but rather one in which GOD chose YOU to live out your destiny.
You are man, configured to the same physical body as Jesus Christ who gave Himself up for His Bride, the Church, to present to Himself a "spotless bride, holy, immaculate." (Ephesians 5) Likewise, stamped in your very body, is the calling of every male in the Church; to give himself up for the Bride,the Church, to help "present a spotless Bride, holy and immaculate." Ours is a calling not to go in search of a ready-made Bride that is ALREADY holy and immaculate, ready made for us, but to MAKE her holy ourselves through the gifts that we have been given. I believe that this example will be far more valuable to your children then even the most perfect Liturgy, catechetical program, etc. that might be found in a Church other than the one that you have been serving.
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Christos Voskrese!
Thanks for all of the work you do, especially your efforts in evangelization.
One item that I think you overlooked in your last post is the aspect of inclusive language.
Also, the absence of many services (i.e. Vespers, Matins, etc.) is something that has to be addressed by our church as well. I'll share a brief and recent story with you. Since I couldn't find a Greek Catholic Church anywhere that celebrated The Great Canon of St. Andrew during the first week of the Great Fast, I attended an OCA parish for it. The priest came up to me before it started to welcome me and also to see what my story was. I told him I was Greek Catholic and he asked me, not in a rude way, why I was going there that night and not to my parish. When I told him that there wasn't a Greek Catholic parish that celebrated what we were about to, the look on his face was priceless. He looked at me like I told him that I believed in the Easter Bunny. He said, are you sure, I told him yes I was positive. He just shook his head and mumbled (not in a mean way but in disbelief) as he walked back to get vested. It can't be ignored that 90%+ of our parishes do not celebrate Vespers and Matins and as far as I know 100% didn't celebrate the Great Canon during the first week of the Great Fast.
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You are man, configured to the same physical body as Jesus Christ who gave Himself up for His Bride, the Church, to present to Himself a "spotless bride, holy, immaculate." (Ephesians 5) Likewise, stamped in your very body, is the calling of every male in the Church; to give himself up for the Bride,the Church, to help "present a spotless Bride, holy and immaculate." Ours is a calling not to go in search of a ready-made Bride that is ALREADY holy and immaculate, ready made for us, but to MAKE her holy ourselves through the gifts that we have been given. I believe that this example will be far more valuable to your children then even the most perfect Liturgy, catechetical program, etc. that might be found in a Church other than the one that you have been serving.
--Fr. Thomas J. Loya, STB.,MA. Father! Bless! Thank you for your post! How very much I appreciate your insight. Much truth spoken! My husband has sacrificed for me (and visa versa) and the process has been one of LONG SUFFERING! But, the sacrifices/sufferings have been redemptive. He and I have been "rewarded". I do believe what you are saying. We must be willing to stay for the long haul. After all, Love is all about sticking it out through good times and especially the bad times! When I mentioned to one of the ladies at our Church that I am struggling with the New DL, she told me, "We NEED YOU PEOPLE, you cannot leave. You are our hope!" The ECC is the BEST place for me and my family. I know it, but I am so discouraged with the new DL. Can't we do more than write letters to Rome?
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Without in any way presuming to assuage the depth of your current consternation or to trivialize the genuineness of your discernment on behalf of your family and of yourself, I must nonetheless implore you to consider remaining with the Ruthenian Byzantine Catholic Church. My reasons for saying this to you are the following: Bless Father, Everything you have stated here has swirled inside my head for many months--perhaps years. Yes, it has been very painful in many ways and there are still remnants of guilt concerning the possibility that my discernment is not correct! Do I have a properly formed conscience?!? There came an awakening of sorts for me when I began to see how much sense it made to accept the first seven ecumenical councils--that there was no need to further define the mysteries of our holy catholic and apostolic faith--even if pushed by protestantism. Furthermore, I saw, in many instances, the faith of our Eastern Catholic Church directly in line with the Orthodox Church--but we were forced to not talk about some Roman Catholic understandings because it was "not really how we think". This dichotomy and identity crisis began to wear on me. I began to understand my true patrimony as the Orthodox Church and no longer saw our Church as a bridge to the schism--in fact I saw our Church as an impediment to reunification. The more I studied, the more I read the Early Church Fathers, the more I saw the Eastern Orthodox Church. Then I read a book called "We Are All Schismatics" by Archbishop Zoghby and I was able to assimilate and understand the generations of pain and animosity caused by the tragic schism. Suddenly I was faced with the RDL! Without going into detail I will only say that I witnessed some real horror stories in the Roman Catholic Church that began with inclusive language and a revisionist mindset and ended with new age voodoo! I lost my peace. I cannot pray a neutralized Liturgy. What sense is it to be angry every time I recite the Creed?!? Do I go to confession every day? My anger would spill over into my daily attitude. It upset my wife. I spoke to three different priests including my spiritual father and confessor. I cannot find my peace when I pray this neutralized inclusivist Liturgy. I understand that there will be areas of concern in any Church. But I do not believe that the Orthodox Church will once again attempt to neutralize the Liturgy as the SCOBA attempted to do in the late 90's. I can deal with an imperfect Church, but I cannot deal with the loss of my peace during the holy Liturgy. The promulgation was a very sad day for me. Kissing your right hand, Recluse
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Mary,
Your post moved me greatly. I found myself in a similar position some 8 years ago, standing before an Orthodox clergyman whom I deeply respect and whose friendship was and is very important to me, asking about the possibility of being received. He told me that he would chrismate me the following week if I desired it, but his caution to me was the difficult state of Orthodox Church polity and the need to consider the benefit of a unified magisterial voice pointing to official teaching. IOW, if I desired full communion with Orthodoxy, he wanted me to enter with both eyes open to its difficulties.
For me it is always what Orthodoxy affirms that has had the greatest appeal, and what it (or at least some within it) denies that I have never been quite able to overcome. The issues you mention are precisely my issues - the ones that cause me to remain where I am.
With that said, I am perplexed by the title of this thread: "farewell to my bretheren". Is entry into communion with the Orthodox Church a "farewell"? Perhaps...or perhaps not. I suppose it depends upon what one denies.
God bless.
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Gordo It is the schism itself that prompts that habit of mind. There is a going away that is required of us, not just those who leave the Catholic Church for Orthodoxy, but for those who leave the Orthodox Church and come into communion with the pope, and some of those stories would rip your heart out. It is not a simple thing as long as there is no communion at all and it tears at the very fabric of our lives, and know it consciously or not, we are all, Catholic brothers and sisters in Christ, diminished on account of the rending. But there are those of us who will come and go and the best thing for the rest of us to do is to encourage them, and welcome them and beg them to try not to become something they were not in the first place, because with or without a public renunciation, the pressures will be there to "convert" no matter which direction one chooses. It is very difficult to cross the de facto line of the schism and not reject that place from which we came. I have yet to see it happen. I am the only one I know personally who might have a shot at it, but even then, I cannot be sure that I would not hear the cock crowing in my own life. There are probably others but their voices are not apparent to me. Mary
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Ebed Melech IOW, if I desired full communion with Orthodoxy, he wanted me to enter with both eyes open to its difficulties. As well you should, because there are indeed many problems in Orthodoxy. Really I think we are both in our own ways in troubled waters (nominalism, secularism, people leaving for Protestantism, etc.), which is why reconciliation if it could ever be achieved would I hope among other things would be a re-invigorating force for both churches to help overcome our mutual definincies. I believe it will happen at some point, but still may be a long way off. At the personal level I think we at various times come to forks in the road, where we find for different reasons the situations we are in just aren't working. The decision must be made to plow ahead (and whether we have the strength to do so), or if it's better just to change course. This can be something we face and struggle with in terms of moving to a parish across town in the same diocese, in another jurisdiction or another communion altogether. I can only speak for myself personally and say that I think what comes to the fore when struggling with something like this are the more immediate and personal issues, and that some of the bigger picture stuff tends to take a back seat. All of it must be weighed though. Whatever we do the change should not I think be out of bitterness, spite or rejection; because those things will likely carry over. What I find troubling about elijahmaria's story is that she is being asked to reject things and not affirm things, where it seems to me someone who is hypothetically entering a church should be encouraged to retain that which positively shaped their previous faith life. What both churches certainly can use are people who are sympathetic to the other side, and that can bear its own fruit. The first step to healing the schism is healing it in ourselves.
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The first step to healing the schism is healing it in ourselves. Beatifully said! Or as Merton once said, "to reconcile all worlds within himself". (In context, he was referring to all Christian worlds...a sad but necessary distinction with him.)
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It is very difficult to cross the de facto line of the schism and not reject that place from which we came. I have yet to see it happen. I am the only one I know personally who might have a shot at it, but even then, I cannot be sure that I would not hear the cock crowing in my own life. There are probably others but their voices are not apparent to me. Your words ring so true. When one "converts" to the "other side", one sometimes tends to carry a prejudice. I will make a concerted effort to always embrace my Eastern and Latin Catholic brothers and sisters with love, charity and understanding.
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...which is why reconciliation if it could ever be achieved would I hope among other things would be a re-invigorating force for both churches to help overcome our mutual definincies. I believe it will happen at some point, but still may be a long way off. ....
The first step to healing the schism is healing it in ourselves. AMM, first off, good post. Secondly, I too think that it will be a long way off. Even though the Pope continues to tell us to work towards unity, there are many things in this revision that don't work towards unity, in fact it moves us further from our Orthodox brethern as well as our Greek Catholic brethern. This is a shame. Furthermore, the Byzantine Church cannot bring itself to even use the word Orthodox in the liturgy. There are supporters of the revision who have posted on this board that there are still too many ill feelings out there and that using the word Orthodox would 'offend' too many people in the Byzantine Church. Unfortunately, unity does seem to be way down the road. Monomakh
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>Furthermore, the Byzantine Church cannot bring itself to even use the word Orthodox in the liturgy.
I feel the need to correct these stereotypes again. It is used in my parish. There is hope if you want to look for it.
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Are you a member of the Byzantine Church of America or UGCC or Melkite?
It is not in the new liturgy books for the BCA. The UGCC, Melkites, and Romanian all use the word.
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Christ is Risen! the "razing to the ground and rebuilding" that I will never stop advocating for and praying for. Fr. Loya, I think the razing must apply to the RDL as well. In reading the foreward or introduction (I don't remember which it is because I don't have the new book in front of me at the moment), it says something about making the Liturgy relevant to modern Americans. That is one of the first principles of the RDL--and a bad one at that. Fr. Taft set forth this same principle: If Christianity is to survive as a viable lifestyle attractive to modern men and women, it will not be as an obscurantist, anti-intellectual culture of folklore and ritualism, sustained by the rejection of modernity and change When the expert and those in authority want to make Christianity a viable lifestyle so that it can survive--they have missed the heart of the Gospel which you preach, which has been passed down through the ages. They have ceased to be custodians of the faith and become its "reformers". While I appreciate modern Amercian democracy and the benefits which I have over those of my grandparents who came from old country, nonetheless, I also see the loss of faith (which I myself had experienced as a young man and which still plagues many of my own siblings and cousins--well over a hundred on my mother's Rusyn side). Pope Benedict knows that there exists in our times a clash of the titans of epic proportions--it is between modernity, which rejects logos and the Logos, and the Church which is rising from her sleep in one of the most crtical times in her history. See his Regensburg lecture. Islam will not now let us ignore this clash. It was with the reflection on the difference between Islam and Christiantity that the Pope began that lecture in Regensburg. Furthermore, it strikes me as terribly significant that Benedict would allow Soloviev's Tale of the AntiChrist as part of his Lenten retreat. Those who have fashioned, and are demanding obedience to the RDL, for whatever reason, don't see what Benedict sees, and won't be led by him. The greatest sign of this, as I see it, is the willingness to change the ancient Symbol, which represents the Faith of the Fathers, to comport with the modern academic world, which scoffs at Christ and His Church. In the secular world, those who have demanded a change in our language and enforced it by bullying and not without causing harm, have given us any number of other evils. It is time that the Church, not just in her faithful, but in her leadership, in her Bishops and theologians, see the modern world for what it is and hold their ground. The compromise of the RDL, however, does not give those of us with young familes much encouragement. If the the faithful are going to convert the secular world to Christ and His Church, and maintain our own faith in it, then we deserve, and have every right to demand, a liturgy and a liturgical life that will sustain us in the battle with the secular world. Thank you for your own efforts and leadership. lm
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It is very difficult to cross the de facto line of the schism and not reject that place from which we came. I have yet to see it happen. I am the only one I know personally who might have a shot at it, but even then, I cannot be sure that I would not hear the cock crowing in my own life. There are probably others but their voices are not apparent to me. Your words ring so true. When one "converts" to the "other side", one sometimes tends to carry a prejudice. I will make a concerted effort to always embrace my Eastern and Latin Catholic brothers and sisters with love, charity and understanding. And pray for the day when you can once again join them in communion...  From the very beginning, there were some Christians who were called to be martyrs and others who were not. You are a seeker, a soul who seeks to be set on fire for God...eh? So you have been looking for that place of inner warmth, interior homecoming, for a long time. You may or may not find it where you are going. You may find something else even more important in your life. So you are much more than just a branch in need of pruning, expendable. You are a soul in need. Seek what you need. On the way, given some of what you've said here, be open to change. I think that there is a change coming inside of Orthodoxy that is going to require some pretty steady sea legs. I think that was made pretty clear at the recent meeting in Belgrade. Surely the same can be said for the papal Church but you are not headed there so that is not my focus here. One of the things that I have noticed is that in the white papers in preparation for the Belgrade meeting, the question was raised, by an Orthodox writer, concerning the Pentarchy in the first thousand years. The question was whether or not there was real primatial power and authority in the patriarchs. The Orthodox answer was yes, there was real primatial power, exercised directly...with the implication being that now it is exercised indirectly. The follow-up question was, of course, if there was real primatial power and authority, then was there not real primatial power and authority for the first among equals, beyond some honorific. The answer was some mumbling...but not a resounding 'no' as I had expected to hear. That small concession is monumental in the whole discussion of the Petrine Ministry. Keep an eye on all of that and an open mind. Also pick up and read, if you have not already, Bishop Hilarion's "The Mystery of Faith." Look particularly at the sections that deal with original sin and Baptism for the remission of original sin. You may possibly hear there is no such thing in Orthodoxy. You may also hear that there is no language of propitiation and atonement in the hospital for souls, but there is. Except for a few pages, I could teach any Latin rite child from Bishop Hilarion's extended catechism. The eternal priesthood and powers of the priesthood are also denied by some Orthodox clergy, laity and hierarchs. I was in a protracted public discussion with a dear friend, an Orthodox monk, over this issue. I insisted that there were Orthodox who did in fact teach the eternal priesthood and powers of the priesthood and he claimed that was not so. He took it to his Metropolitan and came back telling me that my instincts were correct according to his bishop. And he did it publicly. That took immense courage, and a very open mind and heart. These are the things that you will encounter from time to time. Be patient. Keep an open mind. I have a yahoo list called Irenikon. There are Orthodox and Catholics faithful there and several members of the clergy from both confessions who are active on the list. You are welcome to look us up and join. It might help you in small ways. God keep you strong. Mary
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Look particularly at the sections that deal with original sin and Baptism for the remission of original sin. You may possibly hear there is no such thing in Orthodoxy. You may also hear that there is no language of propitiation and atonement in the hospital for souls, but there is. There is, and fortunately it is readily available in various sources - the quotes of church father's, the decrees of Orthodox synods and Orthodox catechisms printed at various times. There is unfortunately a sub-section of Orthodoxy (not Bishop Hilarion in my opinion) who specialize in caricaturizing western theology instead of engaging in dealing with the true differences. You will often see printed rather insane things like "we don't believe in Original Sin" or "you can't find the word's satisfaction used in the East in regards to the Atonement", etc. etc. Just look for any combination of the words Augustine-Anselm-Aquinas-Original-Sin-Satisfaction-Atonement and you probably know what you're in store for. Some of this is produced by virulently anti-western Orthodox natives, and some to cater to the Protestant convert (or potential convert) crowd or has been appropriated and reproduced by them. Some of the criticisms published about the film the Passion for instance were just ridiculous. I said fortunately above, because one can go back and point out these things are most certainly present. This deliberate mis-characterization of what the west believes I think is actually quite problematic, though not always overtly so. Not only because it promotes an atmosphere of opposition (i.e. "we know what we believe, because we know what the west believes is wrong"), but is fundamentally in its own way un-catholic because it is completely singular in its outlook. Particularism and anti-Catholicism can unfortunately for some be a few of the seminal features of Orthodox belief. Conversely however I'm sure there are Roman Catholics out there who still view Orthodoxy or Eastern theology in basically the same way.
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There is unfortunately a sub-section of Orthodoxy (not Bishop Hilarion in my opinion) who specialize in caricaturizing western theology instead of engaging in dealing with the true differences...Particularism and anti-Catholicism can unfortunately for some be a few of the seminal features of Orthodox belief. Conversely however I'm sure there are Roman Catholics out there who still view Orthodoxy or Eastern theology in basically the same way. AMEN! Wow...are you ever on a role. Yes, yes, yes to everything you have said here. In fact I have often said that some Orthodox who embrace an anti-Catholic position on a number of issues are at risk of denying even elements that are also fundamental to Orthodoxy (such as the need for a unified magisterium, without necessarily embracing all of the particular elements of how it functions in a Catholic context).
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And AMEN to both your posts, Gordon and Andrew!
Andrew, that was an excellent post and everything you said is so very, very true.
In the Risen Christ, Alice
P.S. I don't know why 'Recluse' has to say farewell just because he is becoming Orthodox?!? This is one of the most active, intellectual, spiritually mature, compassionate, friendly and interesting forums involving the East. I have yet to find an Orthodox forum that comes even close to it.
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In fact I have often said that some Orthodox who embrace an anti-Catholic position on a number of issues are at risk of denying even elements that are also fundamental to Orthodoxy Yes, that is the real risk and what I meant by saying it can be dangerously un-catholic. The oppositional mentality can show up in all sorts of guises though. I believe based on what I've read here and heard elsewhere for instance, that what Monomakh is saying likely has a good deal of truth. This has probably somewhat strayed. I would again say I think the issues we are talking about are important, but to me are kind of the bigger picture things that tend to be of secondary importance. Our lives as Orthodox and Catholic Christians are primarily liturgical, and the bulk of our active faith is in our own parish, and our first priority is the care and upbringing of our children. I think it's these more practical and tangible things that are the real driving forces behind or decisions of where we need to be. The reality unfortunately is we're going to be separated from somebody at some level because of the situation the churches are in. That is even if we are able to affirm nearly everything about those we are separated from. Each person has to negotiate why and how they line up the way they do. It's not always black and white. There are clearly Orthodox people who privately have devotions to post schism Catholic saints. Bishop Zoghby says he only recognizes the Papacy as it existed in the first millennium. There are members of the Church of England who actually accept everything about the Papacy aside from its declaration that their orders are not valid. There are many such curious situations I'm sure. We all have to find our own way to navigate things. In the Risen Christ, Alice Alithos Anesti!
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Look particularly at the sections that deal with original sin and Baptism for the remission of original sin. You may possibly hear there is no such thing in Orthodoxy. You may also hear that there is no language of propitiation and atonement in the hospital for souls, but there is. There is, and fortunately it is readily available in various sources - the quotes of church father's, the decrees of Orthodox synods and Orthodox catechisms printed at various times. There is unfortunately a sub-section of Orthodoxy (not Bishop Hilarion in my opinion) who specialize in caricaturizing western theology instead of engaging in dealing with the true differences. You will often see printed rather insane things like "we don't believe in Original Sin" or "you can't find the word's satisfaction used in the East in regards to the Atonement", etc. etc. Just look for any combination of the words Augustine-Anselm-Aquinas-Original-Sin-Satisfaction-Atonement and you probably know what you're in store for. Some of this is produced by virulently anti-western Orthodox natives, and some to cater to the Protestant convert (or potential convert) crowd or has been appropriated and reproduced by them. Some of the criticisms published about the film the Passion for instance were just ridiculous. I said fortunately above, because one can go back and point out these things are most certainly present. This deliberate mis-characterization of what the west believes I think is actually quite problematic, though not always overtly so. Not only because it promotes an atmosphere of opposition (i.e. "we know what we believe, because we know what the west believes is wrong"), but is fundamentally in its own way un-catholic because it is completely singular in its outlook. Particularism and anti-Catholicism can unfortunately for some be a few of the seminal features of Orthodox belief. Conversely however I'm sure there are Roman Catholics out there who still view Orthodoxy or Eastern theology in basically the same way. What did Father Seraphim call some of it? The 'correctness disease'? I think so. But it is not just some marginal element in Orthodoxy that takes the "particularist" positions. I do not fault my pastor here at all for the requirements that he laid at my feet. I understand him and I know he understands me. But he laid out the lines of the schism as he and his bishop see them and he said if I want to cross over into communion then I must really and truly cross over. I do not think that is unreasonable. It's tough to pin down any one or two "lines" of particularist thought or teaching in Orthodoxy, and it reaches well into the hierarchy now in this country, in the smaller jurisdictions. The Greeks are pretty predictably going to say nix to papal infallibility and that's about it for the big stuff. I know where I could go today to be received into Orthodoxy pretty much as I am...but then I would have to come home and look Father in eye. I can't do that. He would know my heart. Besides I can't keep my mouth shut long enough to "pass." ROCOR and the OCA are going to be very tough jurisdictions to convince, under some possible threat of renewed communion with the Catholic Church, that there's not a world of difference between us, and it will take time and great patience to influence hearts and minds. In the meantime, as you say, there are all those pastoral considerations and that is where we need to be on hand for one another in mutual understanding, respect and love. Thanks so much for the things you are saying in this thread. Mary
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Indigo,
He is Truly Risen!
May Christ continue to be your Light!
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What did Father Seraphim call some of it? The 'correctness disease'? I believe he called it, "the super-correctness disease".  This thread has indeed been beneficial. I think the title is misleading--I will not be saying farewell to the forum--but in a sense I will be saying farewell to communion with a Church that I love. I feel I have been betrayed by this Church. I have been thinking very hard about my reasons for leaving. Mary is correct. I have encountered very cold and hard hearted Orthodox Christians who carry a terrible prejudice for the Catholic Church. I have also seen the same attitude from Catholics toward Orthodoxy--it is the brutality of the schism. I have heard Orthodox priests deny the Western understanding of original sin and tell me there is no such thing as "once a priest always a priest"--that holy orders can be removed from a priest. My point here is that both Churches, Catholic and Orthodox, are full of imperfect sinners and various prejudices and opinions. So I am forced to ask myself, why must I leave? Many of you are going to jump down my throat, but I believe the reason is because of inclusive language! Let me explain. I am not a Church hopper. I would be able to deal with various abuses in the Church, whether I was Catholic or Orthodox. I am a fighter, and I would stay and fight for the truth. However, I am scandalized by inclusive language--my peace has been obliterated. This has been an intentional and methodical agenda in the Ruthenian Catholic Church. From what I see, the nuns from Mt St Macrina have already neutralized the Triodion (even including one example of vertical inclusive language) and the Matins books. Last night I discovered a matins paperback that I kept from pilgrimage 2004 and it is neutralized--it even uses the phrase "He loves us all". The Liturgy of St John Chrysostom is neutralized and the revision of the Liturgy of the Presanctified Gifts will soon be released in a neutralized version. I am expecting the older versions of the Pentacostarion, Festal Menaion, and Vespers books to be neutralized very soon. At the risk of sounding paranoid, this seems like an intentional process to ease us into a complete neutralization of all Church Liturgies and prayers. In my eyes, it is blasphemy. There is something diabolical and radical about the whole scenario. My heart cries out in agony. And so to put it simply, I seem to be left with the following choice: Be a part of the Orthodox Church, which is imperfect, but is apostolic with sufficient grace and valid sacraments and a Traditional Liturgy and prayers in the language of our Fathers. or Be a part of the Ruthenian Catholic Church, which is imperfect, but is apostilic with sufficient grace and valid sacraments and a neurtalized Liturgy and prayers in the modern language of the secular politically correct humanistic radical feminists. The first choice gives me peace--the second choice does not. There has been such a vast effort to neutralize our Church, that I believe it will take many, many years, if ever, to rid it of this worldly virus--and I cannot take the chance of raising my child in such an atmosphere. If the Liturgy had not been neutralized, I surely would have stayed and fought against the other errors in the revision (my Church was one that has been reduced). But inclusive language has robbed me of my peace. And that is where I stand. The most wretched of all sinners, Recluse
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I don't know if this little story will make a difference, or if it is even relevant, but I thought that I needed to share it: On Lazarus Saturday, my parish was blessed to have a spiritual retreat with Metropolitan Kallistos Ware--perhaps the greatest Orthodox theologian of modern times, and perhaps a future saint. During the Question and Answer period, a Greek Orthodox man who had travelled from Boston for this retreat, dared ask His Eminence: "why, in some translations of the Creed, do we say "for us men"...that is so unfair...I have a wife and daughters and I have to believe that Jesus died for them too!" His Eminence's answer was simple: He started it by saying: "AHHHH, the poverty of the English language". He simply concluded by saying that language was never meant to hurt anyone. He did not entertain the accusation, nor did he insult the man.. Post Script by me: for what it is worth, the new Greek Orthodox Archdiocese translation has taken out 'for us men' in favor of 'for us'.... the poverty of the English language, in practice and indeed. In Christ, Alice
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Post Script by me: for what it is worth, the new Greek Orthodox Archdiocese translation has taken out 'for us men' in favor of 'for us'.... the poverty of the English language, in practice and indeed. And this is precisely why Recluse needs to look more carefully at the communion he is entering. Liturgical revamping can come at any time, any place and is no respecter of East or West. As I've said before and will say again, the issue here is of earthly ideologies having currency in the mainstream and these being allowed to pass into the Church unchallenged. There is such a thing as bad incultration. All of this of course reminds me of my freshman year in college two decades or so ago. PC was the big concern. It was being fought and books were written by the likes of Alan Bloom and Dinesh D'Souza in defense of natural language. Academia still capitulated to the thought/language cops. One of the booty prizes of the PCers is that they've run amok in the business world and now, the Church, with anemic resistance from the old guard. Our churchmen and liturgists can smugly talk of "anti-intellectual" leanings among those who criticize the secular ideology that continues to ravage the Church because, well, they won. You can afford to be smug and irritating when you're in control and have the great weight of modernity on your side. The revolution in the Ruthenian Church looks to me, an outsider, like the one I saw in the late 80s at the university. A few have managed to impose their will on the many -- composed mainly of the unsuspecting or indifferent -- and can now talk about how charitable and intellectual they are with one another. It leaves a bitter taste in the mouth though of the ordinary man in the pew. It also highlights how arrogance has a way of blinding men to the painfully obvious. I see nothing in the Orthodox faith to prevent the same tragic destruction from taking place and no one has explained how the Greek innovation will not spread. There as here, they suffer from clericalism, a point emphasized repeatedly in Fr. Schmemann's book on the Eucharist. In fact, the RDL mimics the same behaviors and attitudes described by Fr. in his discussion on the scholastic influences in Eastern worship. Recluse is opting for a very short term solution to a problem. I've tried to read all of his posts, but I don't remember whether he has a beef with certain Catholic doctrines. This is one thing. But if it's only about liturgy, then I fear he's setting himself up for some heartbreak in the near future.
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It has nothing to do with any "poverty of the English language." (And shame on Bishop Kalistos, an Englishman, for speaking thus!) That gentleman who asked the question was merely showing his own ignorance of the language, and more significantly, how diabolically successful the feminists have been in altering perceptions of what the word man means. Where is the Teaching Church? Why is it capitulating to the Church's enemies?
And why do Greeks especially enjoy insulting the English language?
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His Eminence's answer was simple: He started it by saying: "AHHHH, the poverty of the English language". One can only scratch the head in wonderment at the reason why words such as men, man, and mankind suddenly became taboo in some circles. Poverty indeed! P.s--I was not aware that the Greek Orthodox Church has neutralized the Creed. Do you have any evidence of this? edit: I beg your pardon Alice. I see that you are Greek Orthodox. It is unfortunate that they have tampered with the Creed also.
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It has nothing to do with any "poverty of the English language." (And shame on Bishop Kalistos, an Englishman, for speaking thus!) That gentleman who asked the question was merely showing his own ignorance of the language, and more significantly, how diabolically successful the feminists have been in altering perceptions of what the word man means. Where is the Teaching Church? Why is it capitulating to the Church's enemies? Bingo!
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Recluse is opting for a very short term solution to a problem. I've tried to read all of his posts, but I don't remember whether he has a beef with certain Catholic doctrines. This is one thing. But if it's only about liturgy, then I fear he's setting himself up for some heartbreak in the near future. I am not very keen on doctrines that were defined after the first seven ecumenical councils--though I have been able to keep an open mind about "development of doctrine". I have already explained about the failed inclusive experiment with the S.C.O.B.A. Yes Sultan. It is quite possible that the OCA or ROC/ROCOR, or the Serbian Orthodox Church, etc., will fall into the gross modernist radical feminist error of inclusive language--but if I were a betting man, I would not place a bet on it. I am saddened to see that the Greeks tampered with the Creed.
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Post Script by me: for what it is worth, the new Greek Orthodox Archdiocese translation has taken out 'for us men' in favor of 'for us'.... the poverty of the English language, in practice and indeed. And this is precisely why Recluse needs to look more carefully at the communion he is entering. Liturgical revamping can come at any time, any place and is no respecter of East or West. As I've said before and will say again, the issue here is of earthly ideologies having currency in the mainstream and these being allowed to pass into the Church unchallenged. There is such a thing as bad incultration. All of this of course reminds me of my freshman year in college two decades or so ago. PC was the big concern. It was being fought and books were written by the likes of Alan Bloom and Dinesh D'Souza in defense of natural language. Academia still capitulated to the thought/language cops. One of the booty prizes of the PCers is that they've run amok in the business world and now, the Church, with anemic resistance from the old guard. Our churchmen and liturgists can smugly talk of "anti-intellectual" leanings among those who criticize the secular ideology that continues to ravage the Church because, well, they won. You can afford to be smug and irritating when you're in control and have the great weight of modernity on your side. The revolution in the Ruthenian Church looks to me, an outsider, like the one I saw in the late 80s at the university. A few have managed to impose their will on the many -- composed mainly of the unsuspecting or indifferent -- and can now talk about how charitable and intellectual they are with one another. It leaves a bitter taste in the mouth though of the ordinary man in the pew. It also highlights how arrogance has a way of blinding men to the painfully obvious. I see nothing in the Orthodox faith to prevent the same tragic destruction from taking place and no one has explained how the Greek innovation will not spread. There as here, they suffer from clericalism, a point emphasized repeatedly in Fr. Schmemann's book on the Eucharist. In fact, the RDL mimics the same behaviors and attitudes described by Fr. in his discussion on the scholastic influences in Eastern worship. Recluse is opting for a very short term solution to a problem. I've tried to read all of his posts, but I don't remember whether he has a beef with certain Catholic doctrines. This is one thing. But if it's only about liturgy, then I fear he's setting himself up for some heartbreak in the near future. I appreciate what you are saying. I will say, however, that if it is true that that there is nothing stopping any church from adopting inadvisable (or plainly wrong) teachings and practices, then it means that vigilance of the laity is the only answer. It also means, for example, that should one's church fall into error to such a degree that the faith is impaired, that the laity should have the right and responsibility to take a walk. Let's say, hypothetically, that the Antiochian Orthodox Church (of which I am a member) were to universally adopt some abberant practice or teaching and it was clear that this was set. Well, in that case, I would find myself going over to the OCA or ROCOR or some other Church. There is no guarantee that any particular church, Roman, Orthodox, etc. will not fall into error. The infallibility of the Church only applies to the Church as a whole and if things get too bad, then it will mean that the faithful remnant will have to search each other out and bond together. Joe
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His Eminence's answer was simple: He started it by saying: "AHHHH, the poverty of the English language". One can only scratch the head in wonderment at the reason why words such as men, man, and mankind suddenly became taboo in some circles. Poverty indeed! P.s--I was not aware that the Greek Orthodox Church has neutralized the Creed. Do you have any evidence of this? edit: I beg your pardon Alice. I see that you are Greek Orthodox. It is unfortunate that they have tampered with the Creed also. Several weeks ago, I attended a Greek Orthodox liturgy and "for us and our salvation" was spoken. I thought this was rather odd and almost posted a question about it here. Joe
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There has been such a vast effort to neutralize our Church, that I believe it will take many, many years, if ever, to rid it of this worldly virus--and I cannot take the chance of raising my child in such an atmosphere. If the Liturgy had not been neutralized, I surely would have stayed and fought against the other errors in the revision (my Church was one that has been reduced). But inclusive language has robbed me of my peace. Dear Recluse, I do understand your agony. So, you are not alone in your concerns. I would like to share with you some of my thoughts. I have come to the point in my life, realizing this war against the Faith is far from over. It is going to take every bit of perseverance we have to sustain the battle ahead. I have thought about every option with regaurd to Churches, and none suffice. No choice seems to be "right". I have come to know I have NO HOME here on this Earth. Yes, I do believe in Holy Mother Church. I accept that I will live a life of long suffering awaiting the restoration of Mother Church. I don�t believe I will ever see the restoration. Oh, but what glory the restoration will be!!! I will offer my life, offering up my pain, hurt, and joy to this end of restoration. I especially beg forgiveness for the abuses and blasphemies that are taking place. Some have said that the Church is suffering Her passion. I cannot separate myself from her at this desperate hour. It takes strong Faith to look at the Church today and see a Divine Institution. Daily I fight. My faith is questioned. But always I come back to restoration (a Resurrection of sorts) of Holy Mother Church. "You must fight energetically, since you know very well what great wounds the undefiled Spouse of Christ Jesus has suffered, and how vigorous is the destructive attack of Her enemies." -His Holiness, Venerable Pope Pius IX Recluse, I do understand if God is leading you to Orthodoxy. It is a move I cannot ever imagine making. Not that I know the will of GOD for you, and I am not judging you. For the restoration will include the unity of East and West. "This most unhappy war will end, when an emperor of Spanish origin will be elected who will in a wonderful manner be victorious through the sign of the Cross . . . He will restore the Church in Santa Sophia (in Constantinople), and all the earth shall enjoy peace and prosperity; and new cities will be erected in many places" - St. Bridget of Sweden. Recluse, I am very concerned with the poison of inclusive language. I am struggling with it now. For now, I teach my children daily and trust GOD that will protect them. Don�t underestimate your influence on your child. Your example is vital. --- I believe the grass roots movement is instrumental in this war. Make your HOME a sanctuary and your child will be well armed for battle. Our homes, the domestic churches, are the boot camp, and how we instruct our children at home cannot be underestimated. You and your wife are the living examples and no inclusive language can conquer it. Reculse, please remember to teach your child to pray for the restoration every night! GOD be with you! Take courage!
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It has nothing to do with any "poverty of the English language." (And shame on Bishop Kalistos, an Englishman, for speaking thus!) That gentleman who asked the question was merely showing his own ignorance of the language, and more significantly, how diabolically successful the feminists have been in altering perceptions of what the word man means. Where is the Teaching Church? Why is it capitulating to the Church's enemies?
And why do Greeks especially enjoy insulting the English language? Dear Gabriel, His Eminence is NOT Greek! He is, however, a scholar that knows Greek very well. I believe his point was that in Greek there is one word, and it suffices. In English there are many different words to correspond to that one word, but each is slightly different than the other. This happens with any translations between ANY languages. English is a beautiful and rich language, and one which Metropolitan Kallistos brings to new heights, I might say! As far as the feminists, I have to agree...they are ridiculous, and the men who fall into their lies are equally ridiculous. I couldn't help but turn to my friend (she was Irish Catholic and converted to Orthodoxy) when I heard that question, and roll my eyes! She responded to me in the same way!  (okay, okay, I know that wasn't very nice, but I couldn't help it)  In Christ, Alice
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P.s--I was not aware that the Greek Orthodox Church has neutralized the Creed. Do you have any evidence of this? There have been various English translations which are still floating around. I believe the one which will be the standard includes "for us men... etc.". Fr. Anthony would be able to explain this best. The common SCOBA translation, which was horrendous, was accepted by no one.
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I will try to bring back home the newest 'official' Greek Archdiocesse version on Sunday if Father Anthony doesn't answer.
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So far many of you, including Father Tom, are missing something vital to your salvation here.
I don't want to pick anyone out for censure, but I make an exception for Father Tom since I think he, as a priest, should be more careful with his words and ideas.
There has been a tendency throughout the Church and exemplified in the desert fathers that you remain in obedience to legitimate authority in all things but sin.
So that one should never so easily speak of hopping from one spiritual father to another, one parish to another, one jurisdiction to another, one Church to another, as in the case of moving from Orthodoxy to the Catholic Church or the other way around.
Moving from one thing to another so as to feel better, or because we have decided that something is flawed beyond repair in the Body, is all taken rather matter of factly in some of the posts here. Why, any reasonable person could hardly disagree. So I suppose you could number me among the unreasonable <smile>.
WE do not make the Church holy, even though Father Loya says we do. The Church says that the Body of Christ is holy. The Body of Chist is holy and we participate as members of the Body in humble obedience through faith, in hope, with charity.
Now you loose sight of that foundational truth over some "loss of peace" and you'll be off the path so far and so fast that it will take an act of God to get you back. Nobody has an inherent right to feel good on the Way of Perfection.
You may take that to the spiritual bank.
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if things get too bad, then it will mean that the faithful remnant will have to search each other out and bond together. Well said Joe! I know this has already begun to happen with some Catholics, small scale and larger scale. Is this happening with the Orthodox too?
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I'm not sure how to "come out" on this forum, so I figured this thread was a good starting point.
I, like Recluse, have been considering conversion to Orthodox. For the past two or three years I've been praying about it and talking to both Orthodox and Catholic friends and priests, etc. I had decided to make the switch some time ago, but didn't have the heart to leave my parish, because I love the people there. I've never felt comfortable in the Byzantine Catholic Church, and I've always felt my time here would be short. I knew in my heart in 1994 that some day I would be Orthodox. God has been calling me to this for a long time, and I've resisted. Like I said, I decided to convert in January of this year, and spoke with a priest and my family.
Then the Revised Divine Liturgy was promulgated.
But unlike so many of my brothers, I saw this as a reason to stick around a bit. I'm in cantor school, I've sung the RDL at the seminary, I'm familiar with it. I needed to help my parish make the adjustment. I like much of the RDL and find the pew books great resources. I'm not so keen on all the words, but I'm a linguist and will probably find problems with words no matter where I am.
In my heart, I believe everything the Orthodox Church teaches and holds True. How could I continue to remain in Communion with Rome if I no longer believe what Rome teaches? God will lead us where He wants us if we are open to His will. I woke up one day a month or so ago and knew the time had come to stop avoiding Orthodoxy.
I will be Chrismated Orthodox in 2 weeks.
I, like Recluse, ask for your prayers.
But I want to say something about all of this conversion stuff going on. By unhappy chance, God has chosen this time for me to become Orthodox. I say "unhappy chance" because I've had to make it very clear to everyone that I support the Catholic heirarchs in their revised Liturgy -- as a Catholic and a cantor (a representative of the Church), I must. My conversion has been a long time in coming and I know in my heart that I'm doing what is right for myself. I'm afraid that too many people are converting for the wrong reasons -- we joke (and sometimes not joke) about Latins who "flee Rome" going to the BCC to avoid the Novus Ordo; but those of us who "flee Rome" to avoid the RDL are no different.
Please don't think I'm pointing fingers at anyone, I just wanted to share my opinion on this. I've posted the same before if you look through my posts. It just hits a little closer to home now that I'm also leaving the BCC; though I look at it positively as "I'm joining the Holy Orthodox Church."
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Now you loose sight of that foundational truth over some "loss of peace" and you'll be off the path so far and so fast that it will take an act of God to get you back. Nobody has an inherent right to feel good on the Way of Perfection.
You may take that to the spiritual bank. My loss of peace is no trivial matter. It is not about "feeling good"--it is about "not being angry at the revisionists every time I say the Creed". I respect your opinion Mary. Plain and simple, I will not, and cannot bear to be angry every time I recite the Creed. It is not fair to my wife or child---or myself. And I cannot help the feelings of anger. So if I can be in an Apostolic Church which has not tampered with the Creed or infected the Liturgy with worldly poison, then that is where I must be. That is all. Recluse
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we joke (and sometimes not joke) about Latins who "flee Rome" going to the BCC to avoid the Novus Ordo; but those of us who "flee Rome" to avoid the RDL are no different.
Please don't think I'm pointing fingers at anyone, I just wanted to share my opinion on this. I've posted the same before if you look through my posts. It just hits a little closer to home now that I'm also leaving the BCC; though I look at it positively as "I'm joining the Holy Orthodox Church." Yes. I have been avoiding the call for a couple of years now. But it was the RDL that has given me the extra little nudge. Unlike you, I think it is a travesty. But this is only my opinion. Blessings to you as you continue your journey towards eternity.
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His Eminence is NOT Greek! He is, however, a scholar that knows Greek very well. I believe his point was that in Greek there is one word, and it suffices. In English there are many different words to correspond to that one word, but each is slightly different than the other. This happens with any translations between ANY languages. Alice, It always bears repeating: "For this reason a man (anthropos) shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32 This mystery is a profound one, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church; 33 however, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. The plural of anthropos is the Greek word in the Creed. Anthropoi can refer to adult males, or men, women and children. "Men" like anthropoi can mean only adult males, or men, women and children. Rather than showing any deficiency of the English language, it shows the richness in the meaning of "men". I think it would be wrong to translate the Creed "for us human beings, he became a human being, because the Word became a male human being. To his Church, he has the relationship of bridegroom to bride. It is that relationship to which the mystery of marriage refers. It is the mystery of marriage which modernity rejects. Modernity does not recognize that our bodies reflect the Truth about Jesus Christ and His Church. To the extent that the revisionists have purposefully tinkered with the Creed, they have missed the point of the foundational sacrament and mystery, that is the sacrament and mystery which was "In the beginning." To the extent that the revisionists have haphazzardly tinkered with the Creed, they have unwittingly rejected the truth about marriage and the reason God made man, male and female. In Christ, lm
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Dear Im, I happen to know Greek fluently, and I would be content to recite the Creed just in the Greek, which I also know by heart, because it never changes.  Whenever I recite the English, (and because I don't like to follow texts), I end up in a cacophany of error. I learned it one way, as a child, and that is the way I like it and that is the way I generally recite it. However, over the years, my archdiocese has issued atleast three different translational versions, and they are often used at random by different churches. ARGH! This generally doesn't bother us too much though, because in my Archdioces' Church, we are just SO happy to hear *anything* in English, that it doesn't really matter to us all that much on how accurate a translation is or not. LOL! I understand the matter of translation (not for the Creed, but in Liturgy) also involves the amount of syllables of a particular translated word which will fit in with the liturgical music. Anyway, my point was: don't be so hard on Bishop Kallistos Ware. I am sure that a man of his distinguished background has good reason to say what he does. He is a living saint, much like the Pope and the previous Pope, who does not have it in his soul or heart to belittle anyone or anything. Thanks. In Christ, Alice
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Whenever I recite the English, (and because I don't like to follow texts), I end up in a cacophany of error. I learned it one way, as a child, and that is the way I like it and that is the way I generally recite it. However, over the years, my archdiocese has issued atleast three different translational versions, and they are often used at random by different churches. ARGH! I learned it with the archaic English before becoming Orthodox, and I still prefer the creed as used by the Antiochians which is similar. So I still trip over this, but am getting more used to the new way. The one thing I don't like is the use of the word "consubstantial" in place of "one in essence", but that's a small point. This generally doesn't bother us too much though, because in my Archdioces' Church, we are just SO happy to hear *anything* in English In the ones I've been in they do both, so the creed will be recited in both Greek and English. I understand the matter of translation (not for the Creed, but in Liturgy) also involves the amount of syllables of a particular translated word which will fit in with the liturgical music. What would be nice is one common English translation across all the jurisdictions for things like the creed. Pie in the sky though I have think!
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To his Church, he has the relationship of bridegroom to bride. It is that relationship to which the mystery of marriage refers. It is the mystery of marriage which modernity rejects. Modernity does not recognize that our bodies reflect the Truth about Jesus Christ and His Church. To the extent that the revisionists have purposefully tinkered with the Creed, they have missed the point of the foundational sacrament and mystery, that is the sacrament and mystery which was "In the beginning." To the extent that the revisionists have haphazzardly tinkered with the Creed, they have unwittingly rejected the truth about marriage and the reason God made man, male and female. AMEN! Lord have Mercy! Pray for the revisionist!
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Anyway, my point was: don't be so hard on Bishop Kallistos Ware. I am sure that a man of his distinguished background has good reason to say what he does. He is a living saint, much like the Pope and the previous Pope, who does not have it in his soul or heart to belittle anyone or anything. There is a difference of course between belittling and between pointing out the truth of the matter. Benedict is doing a wonderful job in refuting--and that very forcefully--the relativists. They are all still men. And unless certain ones have spoken "ex cathedra," they, like the rest of us, should be reminded when they have missed the mark, because ideas have consequences as this thread is attesting to. So perhaps the Bishop was not feeling well that day.
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Whenever I recite the English, (and because I don't like to follow texts), I end up in a cacophany of error. I learned it one way, as a child, and that is the way I like it and that is the way I generally recite it. However, over the years, my archdiocese has issued atleast three different translational versions, and they are often used at random by different churches. ARGH! How ironic. We have a common language in the United States and we get the Tower of Babel. Although I don't know much Greek--I had a year and a half in college a long time ago--maybe sticking to the original isn't a bad idea. If we can use theotokos and anaphora, why not the entire Divine Liturgy?
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I will try to bring back home the newest 'official' Greek Archdiocesse version on Sunday if Father Anthony doesn't answer. The approved version of the creed is listed on the online chapel of the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese at the following link: Official Creed of the GOA [ goarch.org] . It has been posted before in this section of the forum in PDF version. In IC XC, Father Anthony+ Administrator
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Recluse,
I will pray for you and your discernment.I frankly hope that people like you will stay in the Metropolia, and help us orthodoxize our parishes. But I understand, I too, have considered moving from the Byzantine Catholic Church for the Orthodox, although for other reasons. Right now, I feel called to stay in union with Rome. I have a deep love for our Ruthenian Church.
I very much respect your decision. Please remain with us on the Forum, if you feel so inclined.
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One more thing I might add, upon reading some of the other posts here. I noticed some people like the prayers in the older English.
I recently found a treasure, an older version of our Ruthenian Prayer book, which uses the traditional language.
I sometimes wonder if liturgists underestimate people's ability to read more dignified language.
I think they have also way overestimated how offended people might feel about so called non-inclusive language.
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My loss of peace is no trivial matter. It is not about "feeling good"--it is about "not being angry at the revisionists every time I say the Creed". I respect your opinion Mary. Plain and simple, I will not, and cannot bear to be angry every time I recite the Creed. It is not fair to my wife or child---or myself. And I cannot help the feelings of anger. So if I can be in an Apostolic Church which has not tampered with the Creed or infected the Liturgy with worldly poison, then that is where I must be.
That is all.
Recluse If I thought your loss of peace was trivial I would not be speaking to you at all about such things. It is quite high handed of me to intervene or interfere as much as I have thus far, so I must think there is good reason to express a caution. I must believe beyond all public posturing or positioning that you are in some danger of personal error. You need to ask yourself if it is right to break communion with the Church of your Baptism over an uncontrolled passion, which is what your anger is by your own admission. Do you really and honestly believe that any Church is going to "cure" you of anger which you refuse to get under control on your own? Your departure should demonstrate far more control than you are exhibiting at the moment. If you cannot gain custody over the passion of anger here, you can't do it there, unless you have determined that you are in an un-holy Church, and must move to a place that is holy so that you may become holy. But that is not what you have been saying here. There is a serious spiritual disconnect in your being at the moment. I think it is important and so I will point to it. The rest is your's. Blessings always, Mary
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So far many of you, including Father Tom, are missing something vital to your salvation here.
I don't want to pick anyone out for censure, but I make an exception for Father Tom since I think he, as a priest, should be more careful with his words and ideas.
There has been a tendency throughout the Church and exemplified in the desert fathers that you remain in obedience to legitimate authority in all things but sin.
So that one should never so easily speak of hopping from one spiritual father to another, one parish to another, one jurisdiction to another, one Church to another, as in the case of moving from Orthodoxy to the Catholic Church or the other way around.
Moving from one thing to another so as to feel better, or because we have decided that something is flawed beyond repair in the Body, is all taken rather matter of factly in some of the posts here. Why, any reasonable person could hardly disagree. So I suppose you could number me among the unreasonable <smile>.
WE do not make the Church holy, even though Father Loya says we do. The Church says that the Body of Christ is holy. The Body of Chist is holy and we participate as members of the Body in humble obedience through faith, in hope, with charity.
Now you loose sight of that foundational truth over some "loss of peace" and you'll be off the path so far and so fast that it will take an act of God to get you back. Nobody has an inherent right to feel good on the Way of Perfection.
You may take that to the spiritual bank.
Mary Mary, I understand your concern. This isn't about church shopping or parish hopping, however. I was Melkite 12 years and struggled with serious doctrinal issues for several of those years before making a decision. Also, I realized that Orthodoxy has its own problems. In fact, I was quite happy with my parish and I still love my brethren there deeply. The point I was making is that there is no guarantee that any individual church will never fall into error. If a church deviates to the point where it obscures the tradition or teaches false doctrine, then one might be obligated to leave (I say, 'might' because only each individual can decide this). Joe
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Domilsean,
God bless you and you certainly have my prayers.
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My loss of peace is no trivial matter. It is not about "feeling good"--it is about "not being angry at the revisionists every time I say the Creed". I respect your opinion Mary. Plain and simple, I will not, and cannot bear to be angry every time I recite the Creed. It is not fair to my wife or child---or myself. And I cannot help the feelings of anger. So if I can be in an Apostolic Church which has not tampered with the Creed or infected the Liturgy with worldly poison, then that is where I must be.
That is all.
Recluse If I thought your loss of peace was trivial I would not be speaking to you at all about such things. It is quite high handed of me to intervene or interfere as much as I have thus far, so I must think there is good reason to express a caution. I must believe beyond all public posturing or positioning that you are in some danger of personal error. You need to ask yourself if it is right to break communion with the Church of your Baptism over an uncontrolled passion, which is what your anger is by your own admission. Do you really and honestly believe that any Church is going to "cure" you of anger which you refuse to get under control on your own? Your departure should demonstrate far more control than you are exhibiting at the moment. If you cannot gain custody over the passion of anger here, you can't do it there, unless you have determined that you are in an un-holy Church, and must move to a place that is holy so that you may become holy. But that is not what you have been saying here. There is a serious spiritual disconnect in your being at the moment. I think it is important and so I will point to it. The rest is your's. Blessings always, Mary Mary, With all due respect, you are not recluse's spiritual mother. Recluse has already said that it is not simply anger over the liturgical revisions that is motivating him. I can tell you that the vast majority of those I've known who have switched from Catholicism to Orthodoxy or vice versa do so after a long period of pain and struggle. And I think that most of us who have made some kind of switch realize that we are not entering a utopia. This isn't an issue of self-control, but an issue of searching out one's conscience and doing what one feels one has to do. Joe
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And I think that most of us who have made some kind of switch realize that we are not entering a utopia. This isn't an issue of self-control, but an issue of searching out one's conscience and doing what one feels one has to do.
Joe Well said Joe. As always!
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A lot of good advice in there.
Godspeed to you recluse no matter your choice!
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Anyway, my point was: don't be so hard on Bishop Kallistos Ware. I am sure that a man of his distinguished background has good reason to say what he does. He is a living saint, much like the Pope and the previous Pope, who does not have it in his soul or heart to belittle anyone or anything. There is a difference of course between belittling and between pointing out the truth of the matter. Benedict is doing a wonderful job in refuting--and that very forcefully--the relativists. They are all still men. And unless certain ones have spoken "ex cathedra," they, like the rest of us, should be reminded when they have missed the mark, because ideas have consequences as this thread is attesting to. So perhaps the Bishop was not feeling well that day. Passions sure are running deep on this thread! I *knew* that fools tread where angels fear!  I am sorry I gave the impression that His Eminence did not refute feminist inclusive sentiment. He infact, did in a most diplomatic and respectful way--but I don't remember his words exactly. Feeling mischievous, I will throw a curve ball here about 'mankind'/'anthropous'---a more accurate word to those of us who speak Greek is *actually* :persons/people--anyone ready for yet another translation?!?! LOL! (Personally, I think that 'humans' sounds like we are members of Star Fleet differentiating ourselves from Klingons and/or Vulcans! ) JUST teasing! I just heard two Resurrection CD's in the car: (Eikona) in English and St. Vladimir's in English...both are heavenly and have made me feel spiritually touched and in a mood where nothing can make me despair--not a translation or an argument. CHRIST IS RISEN! CHRISTOS VOSKRESE! CHRISTOS ANESTI! Have a great day, Alice
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Feeling mischievous, I will throw a curve ball here about 'mankind'/'anthropous'---a more accurate word to those of us who speak Greek is *actually* :persons/people--anyone ready for yet another translation?!?! LOL! OK--I'll swing and try to hit a home run. It would be heresy to say that "for us persons, he became a person," for the simple fact that he already was a Person--a Divine one at that. Have a great weekend too! Indeed He is Risen! Voistinu Voskrese! Now please teach me the Greek!
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Mary,
With all due respect, you are not recluse's spiritual mother. Recluse has already said that it is not simply anger over the liturgical revisions that is motivating him. I can tell you that the vast majority of those I've known who have switched from Catholicism to Orthodoxy or vice versa do so after a long period of pain and struggle. And I think that most of us who have made some kind of switch realize that we are not entering a utopia. This isn't an issue of self-control, but an issue of searching out one's conscience and doing what one feels one has to do.
Joe Just how much respect is due, Joe?  That's always an interesting opener to a critique of some kind, don't you think? Always makes me wonder. I was not attempting to be anybody's mother in this. I have no authority over anyone who does not ask and accept it from me. I listened to what the young man had to say and I responded as one who is interested and who cares, and who walks a similar road. He is free to take or leave what I offer. Anger, particularly when it is self-recognized as anger, is almost always a matter of self-control, Joe. Always ours to control, unless one's mind is incapable of being controlled because of some terrible loss of chemical balance or injury. And anger is always a spiritual stumbling block, and like an ice berg the tip may disappear yet the stump remains. I thought it was worth mentioning. As to the assertion that we make the Church holy, well that does not seem to be Recluse's problem. He seems to be seeking a place that will be better able to help him become holy. I am suggesting that he take the first step while he is still where he is and quell that righteous wrath now, because, as others have noted, human frailty is a rampant in the Body. Blessings....Mary
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Mary,
I understand your concern. This isn't about church shopping or parish hopping, however. I was Melkite 12 years and struggled with serious doctrinal issues for several of those years before making a decision. Also, I realized that Orthodoxy has its own problems. In fact, I was quite happy with my parish and I still love my brethren there deeply.
The point I was making is that there is no guarantee that any individual church will never fall into error. If a church deviates to the point where it obscures the tradition or teaches false doctrine, then one might be obligated to leave (I say, 'might' because only each individual can decide this).
Joe Thank you Joe. You are correct. There are other issues that have surfaced over the years and they are cumulative. But Mary is correct also. Anger is a passion and it has affected my ability to pray the Liturgy in peace. But I often wonder if it is a righteous anger. Is there such a thing? You see, I do not know the answer to this question. It is a reaction to a translation that I know in my heart is a terrible error. When it comes time to say the Creed, I am painfully reminded of the error and my heart cries out in agony. I fight every day to quell the passions of every sort. But this reaction is very difficult to control. Peace to all. The worst of sinners, Recluse
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I listened to what the young man had to say and I responded as one who is interested and who cares, and who walks a similar road. He is free to take or leave what I offer. Thank you Mary. And thank you for the compliment--but I am probably much older than you realize.  Your words are always welcome and they always assist me to reflect a little deeper. Recluse
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Recluse,
I will pray for you and your discernment.I frankly hope that people like you will stay in the Metropolia, and help us orthodoxize our parishes. But I understand, I too, have considered moving from the Byzantine Catholic Church for the Orthodox, although for other reasons. Right now, I feel called to stay in union with Rome. I have a deep love for our Ruthenian Church.
I very much respect your decision. Please remain with us on the Forum, if you feel so inclined.
S'Bohom,
Lance Thank you Lance. Your words are like soothing balm for my soul. Many blessings to you and your famuly, Recluse
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One more thing I might add, upon reading some of the other posts here. I noticed some people like the prayers in the older English.
I recently found a treasure, an older version of our Ruthenian Prayer book, which uses the traditional language.
I sometimes wonder if liturgists underestimate people's ability to read more dignified language.
I think they have also way overestimated how offended people might feel about so called non-inclusive language. I have the original version and the update of the Jordanville prayer book. Oh how I love the Traditional language. These books are real treasures. Where can I find the book of which you speak? Recluse
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I listened to what the young man had to say and I responded as one who is interested and who cares, and who walks a similar road. He is free to take or leave what I offer. Thank you Mary. And thank you for the compliment--but I am probably much older than you realize.  Your words are always welcome and they always assist me to reflect a little deeper. Recluse  Or I am feeling older than me own years since I decided to spend Bright Week with the flu!! But it eases my heart to hear your responses and I will only say now that I will pray for you daily for I have fought the beast myself and it is not a battle won with ease. God's abundant blessings....Mary
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Thank you Mary. And thank you for the compliment--but I am probably much older than you realize.  Your words are always welcome and they always assist me to reflect a little deeper. Recluse Dear Recluse, The is the address for the list I mentioned yesterday. There are some excellent Orthodox participants there who might be very helpful to you in your journey....Mary http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Irenikon
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Dear Recluse, The is the address for the list I mentioned yesterday. There are some excellent Orthodox participants there who might be very helpful to you in your journey....Mary http://groups.yahoo.com/group/IrenikonMany thanks Mary. I will explore this site! I hope that you are feeling better. Your prayers are much appreciated. I will also remember you in my daily prayers. Peace and blessings to you, Recluse
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Mary,
I must ask your patience but I am not sure that I understood some of the points in your posts in reference to me. I do not recall ever saying that "WE make the Church holy" or even intentionally implying anything like that. This concept sounds like some of the countefeit Vatican II spirituality (as opposed to the real Vatican II) more commonly seen in the west in recent decades whic I have no use for.
One of my points is to to encourage anyone who is disturbed at anything to make their thoughts known to their bishop. I do not advocate disobedience nor leaving our Church. Sharing one's heart with the "Father" of the Church "family is not in any way being disobedient. I always emphasize that expressions to our Bishops should be respectful, offer productive and positive alternatives and be well founded. In fact, the very "fatherly" quality of the "Patriachial" model of leadership in the Eastern "lung" of Church invites us "children" to in fact share our hearts with our "father"(bishop, pastor, Patriach, abbot.) In this way the wise discerment of our "fathers" on matters relevant to all of us is actually being charitably served.
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I applaud the recent post by Im regarding the significance of the Bridegroom-Bride relationship in the whole matter of Sign, Sacrament and liturgical text.
Where there is gender confusion there is theological confusion. Where there is theological confusion there is gender confusion. Gender actually IS theology as it is the way (mystically) in which God reveals Himself and in which we in turn as humans are able to love as God loves. Our gender is an icon of the very interior life of the Holy Trinity. Gender is not arbitrary. It is revelatory. I hope to be picking this point up much more comprehensively in the future.
"..Christ emerges from the tombe like a bridegrooom from a bridal chamber" (Paschal Matins.)
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Mary,
I must ask your patience but I am not sure that I understood some of the points in your posts in reference to me. I do not recall ever saying that "WE make the Church holy" or even intentionally implying anything like that. This concept sounds like some of the countefeit Vatican II spirituality (as opposed to the real Vatican II) more commonly seen in the west in recent decades whic I have no use for.
One of my points is to to encourage anyone who is disturbed at anything to make their thoughts known to their bishop. I do not advocate disobedience nor leaving our Church. Sharing one's heart with the "Father" of the Church "family is not in any way being disobedient. I always emphasize that expressions to our Bishops should be respectful, offer productive and positive alternatives and be well founded. In fact, the very "fatherly" quality of the "Patriachial" model of leadership in the Eastern "lung" of Church invites us "children" to in fact share our hearts with our "father"(bishop, pastor, Patriach, abbot.) In this way the wise discerment of our "fathers" on matters relevant to all of us is actually being charitably served.
Fr. Thomas J. Loya, STB.,MA. I may have misread you or maybe what you wrote was not precisely what you meant. If I have misunderstood your words then please accept my apology...Mary Ours is a calling not to go in search of a ready-made Bride that is ALREADY holy and immaculate, ready made for us, but to MAKE her holy ourselves through the gifts that we have been given.
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Gordo and Wondering, thanks for your good wishes. Indigo
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I applaud the recent post by Im regarding the significance of the Bridegroom-Bride relationship in the whole matter of Sign, Sacrament and liturgical text.
Where there is gender confusion there is theological confusion. Where there is theological confusion there is gender confusion. Gender actually IS theology as it is the way (mystically) in which God reveals Himself and in which we in turn as humans are able to love as God loves. Our gender is an icon of the very interior life of the Holy Trinity. Gender is not arbitrary. It is revelatory. I hope to be picking this point up much more comprehensively in the future.
"..Christ emerges from the tombe like a bridegrooom from a bridal chamber" (Paschal Matins.)
--Fr. Thomas J. Loya, STB., MA. Father Tom and Im, Looking at Im's point about the Greek word "anthopos"/"anthropoi" and its ability to signify the one and the many, is there not an important connection here to our redemption "in Christ"? As the New Man/Adam, Jesus Christ is also the embodiment of the New People of God (both male and female) - hence the phrase "the Body of Christ" can also signify his individuality as man as well as our inCORPoration into His life. To drop all references to "man" in favor of the clinically correct phrase "human being" to my mind damages much of the very poetic symmetry between the Testaments and thus between Creation and Redemption. It would be like the animal rights activists demanding that we no longer refer to the beasts of Genesis created on the 6th day as "beasts", but rather "animal beings", thus making any reference in the book of Revelation to the antichrist as "beast" and his association with 666 as the perfection of beastliness absolutely unintelligible. There is an interdependence here between the testaments that should not be tinkered with in favor of the social agenda of a very vocal - and unfortunately very influential - minority. It appears that some of the pet theories of liberal academia have once again disfigured certain aspects of Catholic worship, despite anything else that is positive that may come with the RDL. As we have seen by the some of the exodus discussed here, liturgy is no laboratory for social experimentation. There are very real, very concrete pastoral effects on the lives of good people. And while it may, God forgive them, be in the heart of some clergy to simply dismiss this exodus as the loss of some "kook fringe" in the church, I will only point out that it is their "kook fringe" entrusted to them by God to shepherd. Will they leave behind their social agenda to maintain the peace of the flock? Will they leave the other 99 to go after the 1? We shall have to see... It is a shame that the Metropolia in its effort to "Americanize" the jurisdiction (which is not in itself a bad thing - there are many very positive aspects to American culture) has embraced one of our culture's more tangential and vapid elements - the move towards gender-neutrality. God bless, Gordo
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I knew you were smart Gordo, but wow!
That analogy to PETA and the Theological implications... was very, very apt.
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Yikes. Quite a thread. Since I no longer have an Eastern Rite Catholic parish to attend (nothing close anyway) I have no dog in this fight.
But Recluse - as one who is discerning conversion to Orthodoxy - I will simply say that I am praying for your and your family during what I know to be a very difficult time.
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But Recluse - as one who is discerning conversion to Orthodoxy - I will simply say that I am praying for you and your family during what I know to be a very difficult time. Many thanks for your prayers Carole. I am so blessed to have multitudes of people praying for me. It is truly a difficult time. I have episodes when I am sure that I will convert to Holy Orthodoxy--and then suddenly a voice tells me to stay and help the wounded Byzantine Catholic Church. It is really quite confusing and schitzophrenic for me. It takes its toll at times. But the Lord knows what is best for me and I remain convinced that what is happening can only make me stronger. Peace, prayers, and blessings to all, Recluse
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Christ is Risen! I wish you all the best on you journey to Orthodoxy. I made this journey 2.5 years ago. May the Holy Spirit enlighten and guide you. One advice that I want to give you that I followed myself: retract yourself for the time being from the busy and sometimes confusing world of the various online communities. Although they all most certainly want to help they can be more of a distraction than actually leading you on the right path. All questions that you will have entrust yourself to your spirtual father/priest. He will be happy to answer these. Remember there is no dumb question... Through the prayers of our Holy Father Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on us and save us. Indeed He is Risen! Reader Innocent, a sinner
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Gordo, Don't want to steal your thunder(which was great), but JPII steals everyone's thunder. This is from the letter to families http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/j...s/hf_jp-ii_let_02021994_families_en.html The Great Mystery
19. Saint Paul uses a concise phrase in referring to family life: it is a "great mystery" (Eph 5:32). What he writes in the Letter to the Ephesians about that "great mystery", although deeply rooted in the Book of Genesis and in the whole Old Testament tradition, nonetheless represents a new approach which will later find expression in the Church's Magisterium.
The Church professes that Marriage, as the Sacrament of the covenant between husband and wife, is a "great mystery", because it expresses the spousal love of Christ for his Church. Saint Paul writes: "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word" (Eph 5:25-26). The Apostle is speaking here about Baptism, which he discusses at length in the Letter to the Romans, where he presents it as a sharing in the death of Christ leading to a sharing in his life (cf. Rom 6:3-4). In this Sacrament the believer is born as a new man, for Baptism has the power to communicate new life, the very life of God. The mystery of the God-man is in some way recapitulated in the event of Baptism. As Saint Irenaeus would later say, along with many other Fathers of the Church of both East and West: "Christ Jesus, our Lord, the Son of God, became the son of man so that man could become a son of God".
The Bridegroom then is the very same God who became man. In the Old Covenant Yahweh appears as the Bridegroom of Israel, the chosen people�a Bridegroom who is both affectionate and demanding, jealous and faithful. Israel's moments of betrayal, desertion and idolatry, described in such powerful and evocative terms by the Prophets, can never extinguish the love with whichGod�the Bridegroom "loves to the end" (cf. Jn 13:1).
The confirmation and fulfilment of the spousal relationship between God and his people are realized in Christ, in the New Covenant. Christ assures us that the Bridegroom is with us (cf. Mt 9:15). He is with all of us; he is with the Church. The Church becomes a Bride, the Bride of Christ. This Bride, of whom the Letter to the Ephesians speaks, is present in each of the baptized and is like one who presents herself before her Bridegroom. "Christ loved the Church and gave himself up for her..., that he might present the Church to himself in splendour, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish" (Eph 5:25-27). The love with which the Bridegroom "has loved" the Church "to the end" continuously renews her holiness in her saints, even though she remains a Church of sinners. Even sinners, "tax collectors and harlots", are called to holiness, as Christ himself affirms in the Gospel (cf. Mt 21:31). All are called to become a glorious Church, holy and without blemish. "Be holy", says the Lord, "for I am holy" (Lev 11:44; cf. 1 Pet 1:16).
This is the deepest significance of the "great mystery", the inner meaning of the sacramental gift in the Church, the most profound meaning of Baptism and the Eucharist. They are fruits of the love with which the Bridegroom has loved us to the end, a love which continually expands and lavishes on people an ever greater sharing in the supernatural life.
Saint Paul, after having said: "Husbands, love your wives" (Eph 5:25), emphatically adds: "Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the Church, because we are members of his body" (Eph 5:28-30). And he encourages spouses with the words: "Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ" (Eph 5:21).
This is unquestionably a new presentation of the eternal truth about marriage and the family in the light of the New Covenant. Christ has revealed this truth in the Gospel by his presence at Cana in Galilee, by the sacrifice of the Cross and the Sacraments of his Church. Husbands and wives thus discover in Christ the point of reference for their spousal love. In speaking of Christ as the Bridegroom of the Church, Saint Paul uses the analogy of spousal love, referring back to the Book of Genesis: "A man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh" (Gen 2:24). This is the "great mystery" of that eternal love already present in creation, revealed in Christ and entrusted to the Church. "This mystery is a profound one", the Apostle repeats, "and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the Church" (Eph 5:32). The Church cannot therefore be understood as the Mystical Body of Christ, as the sign of man's Covenant with God in Christ, or as the universal sacrament of salvation, unless we keep in mind the "great mystery" involved in the creation of man as male and female and the vocation of both to conjugal love, to fatherhood and to motherhood. The "great mystery", which is the Church and humanity in Christ, does not exist apart from the "great mystery" expressed in the "one flesh" (cf. Gen 2:24; Eph 5:31-32), that is, in the reality of marriage and the family.
The family itself is the great mystery of God. As the "domestic church", it is the bride of Christ. The universal Church, and every particular Church in her, is most immediately revealed as the bride of Christ in the "domestic church" and in its experience of love: conjugal love, paternal and maternal love, fraternal love, the love of a community of persons and of generations. Could we even imagine human love without the Bridegroom and the love with which he first loved to the end? Only if husbands and wives share in that love and in that "great mystery" can they love "to the end". Unless they share in it, they do not know "to the end" what love truly is and how radical are its demands. And this is undoubtedly very dangerous for them.
The teaching of the Letter to the Ephesians amazes us with its depth and the authority of its ethical teaching. Pointing to marriage, and indirectly to the family, as the "great mystery" which refers to Christ and the Church, the Apostle Paul is able to reaffirm what he had earlier said to husbands: "Let each one of you love his wife as himself". He goes on to say: "And let the wife see that she respects her husband" (Eph 5:33). Respect, because she loves and knows that she is loved in return. It is because of this love that husband and wife become a mutual gift. Love contains the acknowledgment of the personal dignity of the other, and of his or her absolute uniqueness. Indeed, each of the spouses, as a human being, has been willed by God from among all the creatures of the earth for his or her own sake. Each of them, however, by a conscious and responsible act, makes a free gift of self to the other and to the children received from the Lord. It is significant that Saint Paul continues his exhortation by echoing the fourth commandment: "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. ?Honour your father and mother' (this is the first commandment with a promise), ?that it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth'. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Eph 6:1-4). The Apostle thus sees in the fourth commandment the implicit commitment of mutual respect between husband and wife, between parents and children, and he recognizes in it the principle of family stability.
Saint Paul's magnificent synthesis concerning the "great mystery" appears as the compendium or summa, in some sense, of the teaching about God and man which was brought to fulfilment by Christ. Unfortunately, Western thought, with the development of modern rationalism, has been gradually moving away from this teaching. The philosopher who formulated the principle of "Cogito, ergo sum", "I think, therefore I am", also gave the modern concept of man its distinctive dualistic character. It is typical of rationalism to make a radical contrast in man between spirit and body, between body and spirit. But man is a person in the unity of his body and his spirit. The body can never be reduced to mere matter: it is a spiritualized body, just as man's spirit is so closely united to the body that he can be described as an embodied spirit. The richest source for knowledge of the body is the Word made flesh. Christ reveals man to himself. In a certain sense this statement of the Second Vatican Council is the reply, so long awaited, which the Church has given to modern rationalism.
This reply is of fundamental importance for understanding the family, especially against the background of today's civilization, which, as has been said, seems in so many cases to have given up the attempt to be a "civilization of love". The modern age has made great progress in understanding both the material world and human psychology, but with regard to his deepest, metaphysical dimension contemporary man remains to a great extent a being unknown to himself. Consequently the family too remains an unknown reality. Such is the result of estrangement from that "great mystery" spoken of by the Apostle.
The separation of spirit and body in man has led to a growing tendency to consider the human body, not in accordance with the categories of its specific likeness to God, but rather on the basis of its similarity to all the other bodies present in the world of nature, bodies which man uses as raw material in his efforts to produce goods for consumption. But everyone can immediately realize what enormous dangers lurk behind the application of such criteria to man. When the human body, considered apart from spirit and thought, comes to be used as raw material in the same way that the bodies of animals are used�and this actually occurs for example in experimentation on embryos and fetuses� we will inevitably arrive at a dreadful ethical defeat.
Within a similar anthropological perspective, the human family is facing the challenge of a new Manichaeanism, in which body and spirit are put in radical opposition; the body does not receive life from the spirit, and the spirit does not give life to the body. Man thus ceases to live as a person and a subject. Regardless of all intentions and declarations to the contrary, he becomes merely an object. This neo-Manichaean culture has led, for example, to human sexuality being regarded more as a area for manipulation and exploitation than as the basis of that primordial wonder which led Adam on the morning of creation to exclaim before Eve: "This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh" (Gen 2:23). This same wonder is echoed in the words of the Song of Solomon: "You have ravished my heart, my sister, my bride, you have ravished my heart with a glance of your eyes" (Song 4:9). How far removed are some modern ideas from the profound understanding of masculinity and femininity found in Divine Revelation! Revelation leads us to discover in human sexuality a treasure proper to the person, who finds true fulfilment in the family but who can likewise express his profound calling in virginity and in celibacy for the sake of the Kingdom of God.
Modern rationalism does not tolerate mystery. It does not accept the mystery of man as male and female, nor is it willing to admit that the full truth about man has been revealed in Jesus Christ. In particular, it does not accept the "great mystery" proclaimed in the Letter to the Ephesians, but radically opposes it. It may well acknowledge, in the context of a vague deism, the possibility and even the need for a supreme or divine Being, but it firmly rejects the idea of a God who became man in order to save man. For rationalism it is unthinkable that God should be the Redeemer, much less that he should be "the Bridegroom", the primordial and unique source of the human love between spouses. Rationalism provides a radically different way of looking at creation and the meaning of human existence. But once man begins to lose sight of a God who loves him, a God who calls man through Christ to live in him and with him, and once the family no longer has the possibility of sharing in the "great mystery", what is left except the mere temporal dimension of life? Earthly life becomes nothing more than the scenario of a battle for existence, of a desperate search for gain, and financial gain before all else.
The deep-seated roots of the "great mystery", the sacrament of love and life which began with Creation and Redemption and which has Christ the Bridegroom as its ultimate surety, have been lost in the modern way of looking at things. The "great mystery" is threatened in us and all around us. May the Church's celebration of the Year of the Family be a fruitful opportunity for husbands and wives to rediscover that mystery and recommit themselves to it with strength, courage and enthusiasm.
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I don't claim to speak for Corsair or for others that have gone to the Orthodox Church, (and I'm probably going to be accused of encouraging BCs to go to the Orthodox Church) but in Corsair's example, I'd be willing to wager that if the Byzantine Catholic Church was simply behaving as an 'Orthodox in Union with Rome' that the thought wouldn't have come up. Meaning once again, that the mindset in many that are going is that they are not leaving the Byzantine Church as much as the Byzantine Church is leaving them. I'd almost guarantee that if a Greek Catholic church like St. Elias in Toronto was local to many of those who have left or are leaving, they wouldn't have any reason to go elsewhere.
I'd be curious to hear from those who have left or who are leaving to see if my hypothesis is correct or not.
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but it firmly rejects the idea of a God who became man in order to save man. This is from the next to the last paragraph above. "For us men and for our salvation...he became man."
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'Orthodox in Union with Rome'
I think, for my husband and I, therein lies the rub. The phrase "in union with Rome" implies acceptance of doctrinal and dogmatic teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. Including but not limited to papal supremacy (universal jurisdiction) and the Immaculate Conception.
I find that I am acting the hypocrite by giving the appearance of assenting to dogmas that I simply cannot reconcile within myself.
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I don't claim to speak for Corsair or for others that have gone to the Orthodox Church Dear Monomakh, I think you meant Carole and not corsair. Not that I don't entertain the idea of converting to Orthodoxy from time to time. I haven't left the BCC..... Like Recluse, deciding to stay (or leave) has been a very difficult struggle form me. I had to turn my emotions off, because the confusion/turmoil was getting to me. I wait patiently now. If I am lead to Orthodoxy at some point, then so be it. Either direction I go, I feel I loose. That is no offense to the Orthodox or Catholics, it is my personal feelings on the matter. I await the unity of East and West. Unlikely to be in my lifetime, but still my hope! Christ is Risen!
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Look particularly at the sections that deal with original sin and Baptism for the remission of original sin. You may possibly hear there is no such thing in Orthodoxy. I have never heard anyone in Orthodoxy state such a thing... Chris
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Like Recluse, deciding to stay (or leave) has been a very difficult struggle for me. I had to turn my emotions off, because the confusion/turmoil was getting to me. I wait patiently now. If I am lead to Orthodoxy at some point, then so be it. Either direction I go, I feel I lose. That is no offense to the Orthodox or Catholics, it is my personal feelings on the matter. I await the unity of East and West. Unlikely to be in my lifetime, but still my hope!
Christ is Risen! Peace be unto you corsair. Actually, our feelings should be more in line with: "either direction we go, we win" Whether you stay in the Eastern Catholic Church, or convert to Holy Orthodoxy, take comfort in the fact that you are in a Church with Apostolic succession, sufficient grace, and valid sacraments. Many people become so captivated by the passions that are attached to the Catholic/Orthodox schism, that they make a move to protestantism, and although there are many fine Christians in the protestant Church, they do not not have the graces of the sacraments--especially The Blessed Sacrament. Recluse
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I don't claim to speak for Corsair or for others that have gone to the Orthodox Church Dear Monomakh, I think you meant Carole and not corsair. Not that I don't entertain the idea of converting to Orthodoxy from time to time. I haven't left the BCC..... Like Recluse, deciding to stay (or leave) has been a very difficult struggle form me. I had to turn my emotions off, because the confusion/turmoil was getting to me. I wait patiently now. If I am lead to Orthodoxy at some point, then so be it. Either direction I go, I feel I loose. That is no offense to the Orthodox or Catholics, it is my personal feelings on the matter. I await the unity of East and West. Unlikely to be in my lifetime, but still my hope! Christ is Risen! Corsair, yeah, I meant Carole instead of Corsair. that's what I get for posting while working! sorry for starting a rumor!?  Monomakh
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I don't claim to speak for Corsair or for others that have gone to the Orthodox Church, (and I'm probably going to be accused of encouraging BCs to go to the Orthodox Church) but in Corsair's example, I'd be willing to wager that if the Byzantine Catholic Church was simply behaving as an 'Orthodox in Union with Rome' that the thought wouldn't have come up. Meaning once again, that the mindset in many that are going is that they are not leaving the Byzantine Church as much as the Byzantine Church is leaving them. I'd almost guarantee that if a Greek Catholic church like St. Elias in Toronto was local to many of those who have left or are leaving, they wouldn't have any reason to go elsewhere.
I'd be curious to hear from those who have left or who are leaving to see if my hypothesis is correct or not.
Monomakh Indeed perhaps if there were more St. Elias'(not of course ever putting this parish down, but it was brought up as the perfect place, ask yourself why you think it is the ideal place) around people who based a parish's "strength" by a seemingly "abuse-free" liturgy may be satisfied, or those who were seeking a more pure form of Greek Catholicism may be satisfied for a while, but for some no "perfect" place is acceptable if one can not accept the teachings of that particular church or fully express his faith in the constraints that are sometimes unclear. For it is better to be able to fully worship, live, breathe and grow spiritually for some who know who they are, know what they are to believe to be "in the church" and can teach their children the clear and precise doctorines of the church. For some, it isn't how big the icon screen is, or if the parish is being true to the 19th century style of worship, of if the parking lot is paved, or if Father can sing good, or if they have ethnic dancing. For some it is all about faith and being able to practice it without several layers of constraint and doubt. One must always accept what his church teaches, if he doesn't he places himself outside his church.
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It is time for me to continue my journey.
The wise administrator here feels that I have succeeded in convincing those who disagree with me--that I am mad(insane). So it is time for me to leave this forum.
Dear administrator, please voluntarily resign my participation on this forum.
Anger and rancor are terrible passions to fight on a daily basis and I am taking them head on through much prayer and contemplation.
The Ruthenian Catholic Church will always be in my prayers.
Peace and blessings to everyone here. You are a wise and loving community of Catholic Christians and you have taught me much.
Christos posred'i nas!
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It is time for me to continue my journey.
The wise administrator here feels that I have succeeded in convincing those who disagree with me--that I am mad(insane). So it is time for me to leave this forum.
Dear administrator, please voluntarily resign my participation on this forum.
Anger and rancor are terrible passions to fight on a daily basis and I am taking them head on through much prayer and contemplation.
The Ruthenian Catholic Church will always be in my prayers.
Peace and blessings to everyone here. You are a wise and loving community of Catholic Christians and you have taught me much.
Christos posred'i nas! Frustration and interior discord will not carry you far. Stay here and combat it where you have help. Father sensed your rising agitation and tried to block it. Maybe that was a good decision, perhaps not. But it was a well intentioned one. You will never learn the value of obedience by running. Mary
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I'm completely flummoxed...must have been a private correspondence.
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You will never learn the value of obedience by running. It is time to pray (I don't run--I get out of breath too easily). Obedience would be an interesting discussion in light of the circumstances within our Church. Your words have been especially helpful to me Mary. You will always be in my prayers.
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You will never learn the value of obedience by running. It is time to pray (I don't run--I get out of breath too easily). Obedience would be an interesting discussion in light of the circumstances within our Church. Your words have been especially helpful to me Mary. You will always be in my prayers.  Me too! Across the board. Mary
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I'm completely flummoxed...must have been a private correspondence. Didn't know how else to reach him. Nothing to hide in this anyway. Mary
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I'm completely flummoxed...must have been a private correspondence. Didn't know how else to reach him. Nothing to hide in this anyway. Mary No, sorry Mary. I meant his comment about the administrator. I went through the posts and saw nothing that referred to him as "insane". That comment must have been part of a private correspondence.
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The wise administrator here feels that I have succeeded in convincing those who disagree with me--that I am mad(insane). Recluse you are not insane! You have attempted to educate people on inclusive language. The subject has much depth, but some feel it is repetitive. I THANK YOU for desiring to help and educate those who may not understand. GOD be with you Recluse!
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No, sorry Mary. I meant his comment about the administrator. I went through the posts and saw nothing that referred to him as "insane". That comnment must have been part of a private correspondence. From another thread where tensions were rising. Father Anthony was cautious and cut the thread short, thereby gagging the tensions that are wanting to get loose. I don't too often meddle in the affairs of those who wish to move from one confession to another. Once in a while though the circumstances cry out for some kind of mediation. For some reason, I am meddling now My apologies to all. Mary
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Found it. BTW, just to clarify: it was not Father Anthony who closed the thread.
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Found it. BTW, just to clarify: it was not Father Anthony who closed the thread. No, you didn't find the post with the reference to insanity. Go to -- WOMEN AND MEN, CREATED EQUAL....last post
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Found it. BTW, just to clarify: it was not Father Anthony who closed the thread. No, you didn't find the post with the reference to insanity. Go to -- WOMEN AND MEN, CREATED EQUAL....last post Ummm...that's the one I found.
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Sorry! I assumed you meant you found the post where the tensions were raising.....It wasn't clear to me....Glad you found it!
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No worries...thanks for the help!
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Recluse you are not insane!
You have attempted to educate people on inclusive language. The subject has much depth, but some feel it is repetitive. I THANK YOU for desiring to help and educate those who may not understand.
GOD be with you Recluse! Thank you corsair. I know that I am not insane. And administrator is not saying that either. Administrator is saying that if I react to something without well thought out arguments and solid facts--if I react to something out of emotion--then those who oppose my position will write me off as a madman. I understand this. I am so vehemently against inclusive language, that sometimes my diatribe is misguided. Having said that, I must disappear into my poustinia and pray for mercy. I am not the one who will judge those who tamper with our sacred Liturgy. For now, my vocation is to pray. Blessings to you, Recluse
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Found it. BTW, just to clarify: it was not Father Anthony who closed the thread. Thanks. I was focused on Recluse and must have just blinked through the closing notice. Sorry, John. Sorry Father Anthony. Mary
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I'm with you, Recluse. I'm already out the door and headed for the OCA, too... and the RDL is just now being implemented in my Byzantine Ruthenian parish. When I walked in the OCA church, I was surprised to find another family from the Byzantine parish was already there ahead of me. Others, too, are talking of fleeing the RDL.
In discussing this with one well-travelled, well-informed gentleman in my former church, his remark was sage: "It's nice that we have a choice." By which he meant that there are in our immediate area two OCA, one Greek, one Serbian and one Macedonian-Bulgarian churches. Unfortunately, no ACROD or ROC/ROCOR churches, which would have been the logical choices.
The thought keeps going through my mind that we would not be going through all of this if the Ruthenian Church were not in bed with Rome, and if half our clergy were not bi-ritual (Roman) priests...
Like Domilsean, I will miss most of all the wonderful, God-loving people of my Byzantine parish. But friendships do not salve a troubled conscience.
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I'm with you, Recluse. I'm already out the door and headed for the OCA, too... and the RDL is just now being implemented in my Byzantine Ruthenian parish. When I walked in the OCA church, I was surprised to find another family from the Byzantine parish was already there ahead of me. Others, too, are talking of fleeing the RDL.
In discussing this with one well-travelled, well-informed gentleman in my former church, his remark was sage: "It's nice that we have a choice." By which he meant that there are in our immediate area two OCA, one Greek, one Serbian and one Macedonian-Bulgarian churches. Unfortunately, no ACROD or ROC/ROCOR churches, which would have been the logical choices.
The thought keeps going through my mind that we would not be going through all of this if the Ruthenian Church were not in bed with Rome, and if half our clergy were not bi-ritual (Roman) priests...
Like Domilsean, I will miss most of all the wonderful, God-loving people of my Byzantine parish. But friendships do not salve a troubled conscience.
-- pravoslavna It is nice to have a choice, and to be able to freely move to a church where one feels at home and spiritually sound.
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friendships do not salve a troubled conscience. I love this line. It is so true! Thank you.
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Recluse and others,
Had you considered switching to the Melkites, UGCC, Russian Catholic (if they are near you), or others?
Why or why not?
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When one finds refuge from the storms of chaotic Protestantism within the arms of the Orthodox Catholic Church one ceases troubling oneself about less drastic matters. I know the litany of issues that seem to bedevil the two lungs but from my perspective there is no good reason for Orthodoxy and Catholicism to be separate. I'm thankful to be home.
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Recluse,
I know I mentioned this on a prior reply on this thread, but I want to encourage you to stay involved in our on-line Byzantine Forum community, even though you are moving from the Metropolitan Ruthenian Church to the Orthodox Church. We need the voices of our Orthodox friends.
Blessings,
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Recluse and others,
Had you considered switching to the Melkites, UGCC, Russian Catholic (if they are near you), or others?
Why or why not? Are you asking him for the logical/analytical reason why he didn't join the other various (UGGC, Melkites..) churches around him? Or are you demanding and explanation as to why he went to the Orthodox and "left" catholicism? If it is the latter, I would not think he has any responsibility to explain his reasoning at all unless he initiated the conversation.
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Recluse and others,
Had you considered switching to the Melkites, UGCC, Russian Catholic (if they are near you), or others?
Why or why not? Are you asking him for the logical/analytical reason why he didn't join the other various (UGGC, Melkites..) churches around him? Or are you demanding and explanation as to why he went to the Orthodox and "left" catholicism? If it is the latter, I would not think he has any responsibility to explain his reasoning at all unless he initiated the conversation. It would seem to me that you think you have some organic right now to reply in his stead. I find that equally as interesting as the initial question. Mary
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Recluse and others,
Had you considered switching to the Melkites, UGCC, Russian Catholic (if they are near you), or others?
Why or why not? Are you asking him for the logical/analytical reason why he didn't join the other various (UGGC, Melkites..) churches around him? Or are you demanding and explanation as to why he went to the Orthodox and "left" catholicism? If it is the latter, I would not think he has any responsibility to explain his reasoning at all unless he initiated the conversation. I think Michael_Thoma is asking a reasonable question here. It is a question I might have thought to ask out of curiosity, if nothing else. I do not discern any ill will toward the Orthodox in this question.
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Recluse and others,
Had you considered switching to the Melkites, UGCC, Russian Catholic (if they are near you), or others?
Why or why not? Are you asking him for the logical/analytical reason why he didn't join the other various (UGGC, Melkites..) churches around him? Or are you demanding and explanation as to why he went to the Orthodox and "left" catholicism? If it is the latter, I would not think he has any responsibility to explain his reasoning at all unless he initiated the conversation. It would seem to me that you think you have some organic right now to reply in his stead. I find that equally as interesting as the initial question. Mary what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. -Many of us who have 'doxed have indeed suffered some negative responses and almost downright pushy responses from online and in the real world Catholics that find our moves anything but positive. I just want to make sure that none of us who have 'doxed, who are going to 'dox or who are thinking of 'doxing do not get patrionized in anyway. I feel that if any personal questions of a more private matter are to be asked they could also be done via private message. Perhaps I got the sense of a question that fished for public humiliation or a call out to see why Recluse would leave and have him explain his motives pubically when he does not have to. It is between Recluse, God, and his family. Oh and one more thing, you must realize that the sense of individuality we have in our protestant American culture is not a historical aspect of Catholicism and Orthodoxy. Orthodoxy and Catholicism historically and should continue to focus on the collective and not individuality ( a definite american trait). Often I hear and see WAY too much individualistic tendencies when it comes to religion. Just as the question as if I didn't have the right to stick up and defend Recluse, it is collective, I am not answering for him I am merely coming to the defense of him. Also, this individualistic tendency of americans is also demonstrated in the overbearing conversion stories of many former protestants to Orthodoxy (for example) or any church shopping. When we start to talk about finding parishes or churches that fit OUR needs and make us FEEL good, then we are showing our individualism. We see this selfish, man-centered indivualism when people care more about themselves, making themselves feel better, come to church, feel good, leave and do not support the community (which goes beyond dropping a $50 in the collection plate). Look at the protestant movements for example and how they constantly seek to find a place or interpret scripture to make themselves feel good, almost like shopping for a car, and I see this with Catholics and Orthodox as well. So we have seen the protestant/american based individualism bleed into our collective Christian communities, what is good for me? What makes me feel good, what gives me the most satisfaction, etc.. a focus on self and not the community, putting yourself before others. These are totally opposite of the very nature and basic principles of Christianity. Christianity is a brotherhood, a team, a community. There are individuals and we all have individual needs, however we collectively take care of each other (or we should start doing so). There is no "I" in Christianity per se. While the individual is important, we are to others before ourselves, to be servants and worry more about a brother's needs than ours. Rights? Rights in the American sense of individualistic and "me-ness" do not really mesh completely with Christianity. American priniciples are based on rugged individualism (so much so that in many places neighbours never talk) and eveything is man-centered. In Christianity, while we focus on the individual, his Theosis, we put (if we aren't we need to start doing so)more emphasis on the community and the collective body of Christ, the Church. Who is that body of Christ, the church? Not the building but the collective faithful who receive the sacraments together, and who come together as one through the Eucharist and living the Gospels.
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Calm down everyone.
I wasn't asking in an accusatory tone.
I have stated before that I too have 6 toes in Catholicism and 4 in Orthodoxy (although not of the Eastern variety, but the Oriental).
The reason I ask is this - in my mind, as of today the one thing that we do lose when 'leaving' Catholicism (whether Melkite, Ruthenian, Syriac, Maronite, etc) for Orthodoxy (whether Eastern or Oriental) is that unity we had even between Byzantines, Syriacs, Indians, Copts, Armenians, Greeks, Russians, etc. If Recluse 'doxes to the OCA and I to the Syriac or Indian Church we will both be Orthodox and still not in Communion with each other, even though we were as Catholics. (Of course I long for that reunion as well!!)
I do love the Orthodox Churches, I especially love the Syriac/Indian Orthodox Church, and I most especially love the Catholic variety of the same Church.
Please excuse the initial miscommunication.
As to the big "WHY" to Recluse - he initially stated that the 'anthropos' issue in the Ruthenians "finally tipped him over..." - the question begs, why not tip over to the Melkites, Ukrainians, Russians, etc who have retained the "proper wording" if that is the case.
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more. Mary
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However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more.
Mary Amen, Mary. While some are more open than others, I completely agree with your assessment here. And OP needs to bring the teperature down a degree or two. I thought Michael's question was a legitimate one as well. Gordo
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Greetings all,
Glory To Jesus Christ!
I was not offended by Michael�s question. In fact, these issues have crossed my mind also. I am not familiar with the Russian Catholic Church--is there one near Pittsburgh? I have never been inside a Ukrainian Catholic Church. And I would be jubilant if there were a Melkite Catholic Church nearby.
It has been a month since my original post and I have been doing a lot of soul searching. I have not yet come to a decision. I need more discernment. Converting to Holy Orthodoxy is a big decision and I do not want to do it for the wrong reasons. The RDL cause me much anger, and this anger opened the door to a myriad of other passions--like a domino effect. I feel like I have been free falling from the Ladder of Divine Ascent at lightening speed! A series of confessions in conjuction with prayer and contemplation has enabled me to step back and analyze my motives for possible conversion. Orthodoxy may indeed be my final destination, but I must be 100% certain. Mary proposes an issue that is difficult for me--leaving the Church of my baptism. Also, I have always considered it important to be in communion with the bishop of Rome. I am convinced that everybody�s prayers have been extremely beneficial to me, and I beg you all to continue praying for me and my family.
Peace and blessings, Recluse
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more. Mary While it is a big move indeed, for many of us it was simply a fulfillment of what we believed as Greek/Byzantine Catholics and a spiritual and natural move. And how does the Orthodox hold the Catholics at bay? There are issues on both sides that we are having troubles answering. So it is unjustly unfair to paint the Orthodox as those who are having the issues, almost a latin catholic perspective. There are HUGE HUGE differences culturally and theological differences between east and west and the way you stated that it was the Orthdoox who have the problem is highly western.
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more.Mary Wow! With this kind of thinking, We'll all be long gone before there is any chance of reunion! You make it sound like it's a sin to leave the Catholic Church for the Orthodox Church, but not vice versa! 
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more.Mary Wow! With this kind of thinking, We'll all be long gone before there is any chance of reunion! You make it sound like it's a sin to leave the Catholic Church for the Orthodox Church, but not vice versa!  I'm not worried about the re-introduction of intercommunion. That is left to the Holy Spirit through our hiearchs. While is may be important, there is much the Byzantine/Greek Catholics and Orthodox can do together in the mean time.... such as running community outreaches together, carry the Matthew 25 ministries together. Let's just not talk about something that is on the Holy Spirit's time (inter-communion), let's pull together to carry out the ministries of the Gospels, feed the poor, visit the sick and imprisioned, etc............................................... insetead of throwing proverbial darts and wondering when intercommunion may or may not happen.
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While it is a big move indeed, for many of us it was simply a fulfillment of what we believed as Greek/Byzantine Catholics and a spiritual and natural move. Christ Is Risen! Yes. This is an accurate statement for me. I have stated before on this forum that I am somewhat disturbed by Rome's need to define everything. I believe that later doctrines such as purgatory, IC, and Papal Infallibility were not necessary. There are those within the Eastern Catholic Church who would say that "we do not really need to adhere to these doctrines because we are Eastern". There seems to be an unspoken rule that as Eastern Christians, we are not held to the same understandings as the West. This is confusing to me. How can we be in communion with Rome but not be held to the same understandings (wink, wink, nod, nod). And so my conscience began to cry out, "if you want to be truly Eastern, you must be Orthodox"! But over the years I had begun to see some of the Latinizations being reversed in our Churches, and a true yearning from the people to reconnect with their Eastern Traditions, and I felt that perhaps I could help in some way--such as teaching children, or entering the deaconate program. Then it happened--bang--the RDL! I was devastated! I saw very little need to change the former Liturgy. It was written on the hearts of the people. Suddenly there is division because of the RDL. I began having flashbacks of the Latin Novus Ordo. Our Church was not complaining about sexist language, yet the Liturgy was neutralized. The Creed has more than a dozen changes. "Oblation" is changed to "Anaphora". My parish Church was reduced because all the beautiful antiphons that we sung were eliminated. The music became more complicated. The books are confusing and already beginning to fall apart. Our reformers ostracized us from other Eastern Catholics and Orthodox. And so here I am again struggling with my pre-RDL thoughts and wondering why the Ruthenian reformers would spend so much time and money on a re-translated Liturgy, when they could have used the time and money to catechize, evangelize, re-introduce matins and vespers, beautify our Churches, etc., etc. It is so sad for me--it breaks my heart. And so my discernment continues.
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more.Mary Wow! With this kind of thinking, We'll all be long gone before there is any chance of reunion! You make it sound like it's a sin to leave the Catholic Church for the Orthodox Church, but not vice versa!  If I had meant to say that, do you not think I am capable of saying that? You, who worries so deeply about the offensiveness of others, apparently have very little concern for your own. It is offensive to put words in other people's mouths. You hurt your own credibility with this kind of knee-jerk response. There are Orthodox faithful who have come to me to ask about returning to the Catholic Church, but their grace is so great and their gifts seem so fruitful in Orthodoxy that I beg them to reconsider if they can in good conscience. In fact I have never called either move a sin. I have said that it is a grave thing to turn away from the Church of your baptism and formally embrace a de facto schism, which is an objectively sinful state of being. I will say that schism is sinful, but I have never said those who convert, either way, are sinners. I understand that it is easy to react to the voices in your head but I prefer, that when people talk to me, they actually pay some attention to who I am as a person and what I actually say or belive. Otherwise I get to feeling like the wall or the hollow tree stump, or invisible. Mary
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what is an organic right? -If he is a christmated Orthodox brethren I do in fact have a responsibility to stick up and care for my brother in Christ, as if he is now a full member of the Orthodox Church we share in the Body and Blood of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, we are united in Christ, brothers. Probably would have been a more pleasant experience to simply wait to see what your brother had to say and wait to see whether or not he actually needed to be defended quite so stridently. I have cautioned some here to be more circumspect about their motives for leaving communion with the Catholic Church and becoming Orthodox. It is not the easy "slide" that some would like to make it seem. It is breaking communion with the Church of one's baptism and that is not something to be taken lightly. However much I deplore it and refuse to acknoweldge it as often as possible spiritually, theologically and ligurgically, we are in de facto schism and it is Orthodoxy that holds her Catholic brothers and sisters at bay, not the other way around. Not any more.Mary Wow! With this kind of thinking, We'll all be long gone before there is any chance of reunion! You make it sound like it's a sin to leave the Catholic Church for the Orthodox Church, but not vice versa!  If I had meant to say that, do you not think I am capable of saying that? You, who worries so deeply about the offensiveness of others, apparently have very little concern for your own. It is offensive to put words in other people's mouths. You hurt your own credibility with this kind of knee-jerk response. There are Orthodox faithful who have come to me to ask about returning to the Catholic Church, but their grace is so great and their gifts seem so fruitful in Orthodoxy that I beg them to reconsider if they can in good conscience. In fact I have never called either move a sin. I have said that it is a grave thing to turn away from the Church of your baptism and formally embrace a de facto schism, which is an objectively sinful state of being. I will say that schism is sinful, but I have never said those who convert, either way, are sinners. I understand that it is easy to react to the voices in your head but I prefer, that when people talk to me, they actually pay some attention to who I am as a person and what I actually say or belive. Otherwise I get to feeling like the wall or the hollow tree stump, or invisible. Mary Well I'm not a theologian, but I do not feel like I'm in a grave situation having left the church of my baptism. I'm in a church that has grace, has recognized my baptism, has apostolic origin, and valid sacraments. My point was you make it sound like the Orthodox church is the church in error, and Rome has done nothing wrong in Its history. Promulgation of the RDL proves that they can and do err.
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While it is a big move indeed, for many of us it was simply a fulfillment of what we believed as Greek/Byzantine Catholics and a spiritual and natural move. Christ Is Risen! Yes. This is an accurate statement for me. I have stated before on this forum that I am somewhat disturbed by Rome's need to define everything. I believe that later doctrines such as purgatory, IC, and Papal Infallibility were not necessary. There are those within the Eastern Catholic Church who would say that "we do not really need to adhere to these doctrines because we are Eastern". There seems to be an unspoken rule that as Eastern Christians, we are not held to the same understandings as the West. This is confusing to me. How can we be in communion with Rome but not be held to the same understandings (wink, wink, nod, nod). And so my conscience began to cry out, "if you want to be truly Eastern, you must be Orthodox"! But over the years I had begun to see some of the Latinizations being reversed in our Churches, and a true yearning from the people to reconnect with their Eastern Traditions, and I felt that perhaps I could help in some way--such as teaching children, or entering the deaconate program. Then it happened--bang--the RDL! I was devastated! I saw very little need to change the former Liturgy. It was written on the hearts of the people. Suddenly there is division because of the RDL. I began having flashbacks of the Latin Novus Ordo. Our Church was not complaining about sexist language, yet the Liturgy was neutralized. The Creed has more than a dozen changes. "Oblation" is changed to "Anaphora". My parish Church was reduced because all the beautiful antiphons that we sung were eliminated. The music became more complicated. The books are confusing and already beginning to fall apart. Our reformers ostracized us from other Eastern Catholics and Orthodox. And so here I am again struggling with my pre-RDL thoughts and wondering why the Ruthenian reformers would spend so much time and money on a re-translated Liturgy, when they could have used the time and money to catechize, evangelize, re-introduce matins and vespers, beautify our Churches, etc., etc. It is so sad for me--it breaks my heart. And so my discernment continues. That statement is very interesting for me because it describes the concerns I had before I started my way into Orthodoxy. It was somewhat emphazied for me because I was being looked at as a possible candidate for the Holy deaconat and so my question was how could I be in the Holy Orders representing the church but not beleive in all its teachings and doctrines. That became then a no-brainer and I left. I still have dear friends in the B/C. I feel somewhat releaved from these sort of struggles with revisions of liturgies or simply not to know what to expect when I visit another parish. That is now a given: I can expect the same structure and wonderful worship in every parish and still appreciate the different local customs. However, and you are of course aware of that: your struggles will shift. I am struggling with different things now and they are all related to my sinfullnes. But I still think that these struggles in the end will draw me closer to God ... I guess my lessons learned is: a christian life is simply not easy and will never be easy. But it is important to be in the right spot to get the best help in these struggles (AKA Holy mysteries etc.etc.)
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That statement is very interesting for me because it describes the concerns I had before I started my way into Orthodoxy. It was somewhat emphazied for me because I was being looked at as a possible candidate for the Holy deaconat and so my question was how could I be in the Holy Orders representing the church but not beleive in all its teachings and doctrines. That became then a no-brainer and I left.
I still have dear friends in the B/C. I feel somewhat releaved from these sort of struggles with revisions of liturgies or simply not to know what to expect when I visit another parish. That is now a given: I can expect the same structure and wonderful worship in every parish and still appreciate the different local customs. However, and you are of course aware of that: your struggles will shift. I am struggling with different things now and they are all related to my sinfullnes. But I still think that these struggles in the end will draw me closer to God ...
I guess my lessons learned is: a christian life is simply not easy and will never be easy. But it is important to be in the right spot to get the best help in these struggles (AKA Holy mysteries etc.etc.) Amen, my friend. It sounds as if our paths are similar. I had a strong pull to the Diaconate, but that has diminished. My discernment continues but the pull toward Holy Orthodoxy does not cease. The deciding factor may be my young child. And here may be the crux of the dilemma. If I am not completely confident in all the doctrines of the Catholic Church--if I feel that many areas of the RDL are in error--if I feel that a neutralized Liturgy is a grave error--then how can I raise my child in such an atmosphere? At the same time, I am hesitant to leave the Church of my baptism. Why does my family have to be re-chrismated? Does this mean that my confirmation in the eighth grade in the RCC was not valid? Does it mean that my baby's chrismation in the BCC was not valid? I am being torn apart. But this is what the Lord wants for me at this time. How do I know that my discernment is true? Perhaps all of this is a gift in some way? I will trust the Lord for answers.
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Recluse,
The things you have shared with us are wise.
I too, as a Byzantine Catholic, have struggled with second millennium dogmatic definitions that originate in the west, and these have made me consider Orthodoxy. Yet, union with Peter seems to me to be a decisive issue.
I am not as gifted as others on this forum expressing myself, so let me just say in layman's terms that the papal ministry of the first millennium seems to be greater than what most Orthodox seem willing to allow, and yet, not as grand as what most ardent Catholics assert.
I too am disappointed with some of the changes in the RDL. I just hate the phrase "holy things to holy people," it just seems so un-poetic compared to "holy things to the holy." The former seems a totally unnecessary change.
In my choice of scripture translations, I find myself choosing the older more traditional translations, like the KJV, Douay and RSV. I do not like most inclusive language. I have gotten to be a cranky conservative when it comes to language issues. So I empathize there.
As an Orthodox friend once cautioned me, one should not change churches, especially when we are talking about the Orthodox and Catholic Churches, like one would change a shirt. Recluse, you seem to be really wrestling with this, and you are to be commended for that.
I in fact have looked at the Orthodox church, and one priest I met with practically tried to talk me out of it- not because he would not welcome a convert, but because he wanted me to be sure I was making the changes for the right reason. He cautioned me that some of the problems I perceive in the Catholic church might appear in a different form in the Orthodox church.
I say to you Recluse, be in prayer, and I am sure our Lord will guide you to make the right decision. I will support either decision you make, to stay or go.
The Orthodox in my mind are my brethren. I cannot dismiss the historic reality of our schism, but I am one of those who believe that the Orthodox and Catholic have so much that is substantial in common that there is very little that separates us. In my locale, I fellowship as much as possible with the Orthodox, only refraining from the Orthodox sacraments, which I am not able to receive.
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I too, as a Byzantine Catholic, have struggled with second millennium dogmatic definitions that originate in the west, and these have made me consider Orthodoxy. Yet, union with Peter seems to me to be a decisive issue. Yes. This is an issue with me also. Somehow, I innately feel that communion with the See of Peter is important. the papal ministry of the first millennium seems to be greater than what most Orthodox seem willing to allow, and yet, not as grand as what most ardent Catholics assert. This is my impression also. I too am disappointed with some of the changes in the RDL. I just hate the phrase "holy things to holy people," it just seems so un-poetic compared to "holy things to the holy." The former seems a totally unnecessary change. I cannot agree more. I am disturbed by this wording. My wife and I were discussing yesterday the lack of poetry in this change. In my choice of scripture translations, I find myself choosing the older more traditional translations, like the KJV, Douay and RSV. I do not like most inclusive language. I have gotten to be a cranky conservative when it comes to language issues. So I empathize there. I don't suppose that I have to tell you how cranky I am when it comes to inclusive language. As an Orthodox friend once cautioned me, one should not change churches, especially when we are talking about the Orthodox and Catholic Churches, like one would change a shirt. Recluse, you seem to be really wrestling with this, and you are to be commended for that. Thank you Lance. I will wrestle as long as it takes. I was born and raised Latin Catholic and canonically changed to Ruthenian Catholic. If I am to be accepted into Holy Orthodoxy, I need to be sure that it will be the last phase of my journey (as far as Church membership not spiritually of course). I in fact have looked at the Orthodox church, and one priest I met with practically tried to talk me out of it- not because he would not welcome a convert, but because he wanted me to be sure I was making the changes for the right reason. He cautioned me that some of the problems I perceive in the Catholic church might appear in a different form in the Orthodox church. I was given the same caution. I say to you Recluse, be in prayer, and I am sure our Lord will guide you to make the right decision. I will support either decision you make, to stay or go. Thank you my friend. The Orthodox in my mind are my brethren. I cannot dismiss the historic reality of our schism, but I am one of those who believe that the Orthodox and Catholic have so much that is substantial in common that there is very little that separates us. In my locale, I fellowship as much as possible with the Orthodox, only refraining from the Orthodox sacraments, which I am not able to receive. Your words have inspired me, Lance--you are wise indeed. Years ago, as a Latin Catholic, I did not know of the existence of the Eastern Catholic Church, and I thought that the Orthodox Church was a cult. I did not know that there was such a word as "schism". Now, I am deeply pained and thoroughly scandalized by the separation of East and West. So much can change in such a short period of time. Many years, Recluse
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At the same time, I am hesitant to leave the Church of my baptism. Why does my family have to be re-chrismated? Does this mean that my confirmation in the eighth grade in the RCC was not valid? Does it mean that my baby's chrismation in the BCC was not valid? another similarity. I asked the same question to my priest when he prepared me what would be involved in the receiving into Holy Orthodoxy. (next to renouncing, confession and chrismation). He answered in a very typical orthodox manner: That is what the bishop wants me to do while receiving roman catholic Well we had a followup discussion about that and there was one point that my priest pointed out: Chrismation (as with all sacraments) is not so much being looked at in the terms of valid or not valid. Especially with chrismation even an orthodox person could receive that sacrament multiple times. A person is being chrismated everytime if that person fell severly out of the church (basically excommunicated him/herself) but is now repenting and returning to the church. That is how Orthodoxy looks at a convert: someone who is repenting and will now be received back into the church. And that is done by chrismation - strengthened with the gift of the Holy Spirit. And again then there is always the attitued: the bishop says so!  I learned to live with such an attitude and find it meanwhile more beneficial. Why should I worry my little self about all these details when to do what, when my archpastor has the job to take care of all these things. So I have to trust that he knows best. (and yes - I still can think for myself but sometimes I choose not to ...lol)
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Yet, union with Peter seems to me to be a decisive issue. That is different for me - or maybe not. For me it is important to be in communion with all canonical sees - the see of Peter would be one of them. And it pains me that we are not in communion. However I don't see any additional or specific (for the lack of better terms) benefit to be in communion with the see of Peter. My local church is the see of Dallas and the South with my Archpastor Dmitri. That puts me in communion with the whole church. I guess I am really a very strong advocate for the equality of all bishops. (no offense intended)
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That is how Orthodoxy looks at a convert: someone who is repenting and will now be received back into the church. And that is done by chrismation - strengthened with the gift of the Holy Spirit. Ah, thank you for this explanation. Why should I worry my little self about all these details when to do what, when my archpastor has the job to take care of all these things. So I have to trust that he knows best. (and yes - I still can think for myself but sometimes I choose not to ...lol) Sometimes obedience is the only way! 
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That is different for me - or maybe not. For me it is important to be in communion with all canonical sees - the see of Peter would be one of them. And it pains me that we are not in communion. However I don't see any additional or specific (for the lack of better terms) benefit to be in communion with the see of Peter. My local church is the see of Dallas and the South with my Archpastor Dmitri. That puts me in communion with the whole church. I guess I am really a very strong advocate for the equality of all bishops. (no offense intended) Yes, I understand this. And that is why it is such a big part of my struggle. Am I biased because of a life long familiarity with the Pope of Rome? What about the other four Sees? I comprehend that the papacy had a primacy of honor when the Church was one--but as Lance said, the papacy had more of a role than some within Orthodoxy will admit, and less of a role than some within Catholicism will admit. My attachment to the papacy is one of the last discernment hurdles--I cannot seem to get a clear answer.
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Yes, I understand this. And that is why it is such a big part of my struggle. Am I biased because of a life long familiarity with the Pope of Rome? What about the other four Sees? I comprehend that the papacy had a primacy of honor when the Church was one--but as Lance said, the papacy had more of a role than some within Orthodoxy will admit, and less of a role than some within Catholicism will admit. My attachment to the papacy is one of the last discernment hurdles--I cannot seem to get a clear answer. One of the things you do not want to do is look to the abuses of power and authority to define the meaning of a doctrine or theological truth. But more importantly, we, both Catholic and Orthodox, are examining our respective forms of governance and finding that the real, in history, has often not met the ideal. So if I were you, I would not make the issues of Church governance the pivotal issue. Changes are on the horizon, if not mutually agreed, then at least internally, respectively. Mary
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So if I were you, I would not make the issues of Church governance the pivotal issue. Changes are on the horizon, if not mutually agreed, then at least internally, respectively. I am not sure if I understand your post. Are you saying that Rome is in the process of backing off the doctrine of Papal infallibility and primacy? I'm not so sure I would categorize my issues with the papacy as pivitol, but it is important to me. I'm not sure it is so much an issue of governance as it is an issue of comfortable familiarity. All my life I have known and repected "the earthly shepherd" of the Catholic Church. As a small child, I would watch the Christmas eve Mass late at night. I was always secure knowing that the successor of Peter was the bishop of Rome. But now I know that all bishops are successors of Peter......and John, and James, and Andrew, etc., etc... But my love for the Pope of Rome has been instilled in my heart from birth...it is difficult for me. R
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But when it comes to the primacy of Peter which has been traditionally ascribed by East and West to the Bishop of Rome, it would seem that two principles are at work here - one eternal and the other temporal. The apostolic college and the Petrine primacy as defined in the Gospels and by the Church Fathers bespeaks more than just the temporal exercise of power in Church governance. There is also an eternal principle involved, as illustrated by these passages from Matthew's Gospel: Matthew 19:28: Truly, I say to you, in the new world, when the Son of Man shall sit on His glorious throne, you who have followed me will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. Mattew 16:18-19 And I say to you: That you are Peter; and upon this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. And I will give to you the keys of the kingdom of heaven. And whatsoever you shalt bind upon earth, it shall be bound also in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth, it shall be loosed also in heaven. Now the precise nature of all this in the temporal sphere (which would seem to mirror eternity) appears to be what is contested on both sides. Just my two cents... Gordo
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I am not sure if I understand your post. Are you saying that Rome is in the process of backing off the doctrine of Papal infallibility and primacy? Didn't mean to lead you in that direction. Gordo's post explains why I would not suggest that as a possibility. What the Church has defined will stand. It simply seems to me at the level of the bilateral discussions there may be a way of reconciling the doctrine while making the exercise of primatial power something that is wide open to discussion. I've talked about that in other threads. I'm not so sure I would categorize my issues with the papacy as pivitol, but it is important to me. I'm not sure it is so much an issue of governance as it is an issue of comfortable familiarity. All my life I have known and repected "the earthly shepherd" of the Catholic Church. As a small child, I would watch the Christmas eve Mass late at night. I was always secure knowing that the successor of Peter was the bishop of Rome. But now I know that all bishops are successors of Peter......and John, and James, and Andrew, etc., etc... Yes. But not quite in the same primatial manner as the bishop of Rome. And that is not so loudly denied among Orthodox hierarchs as one might think. So it is time to hold fast to our prayers, and watch, on this score. That is all that I was saying. But my love for the Pope of Rome has been instilled in my heart from birth...it is difficult for me.
R I surely do understand that response. Sometimes he has been the safest respite, for my soul and psyche, in the face of some of the behaviors of others in the Church in my lifetime. Mary
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Unfortunately this thread is starting to bring out the worst in some posters. I have received no fewer than four moderator notifications this morning. I have deleted the previous five posts for they were posts and replies that are not of the standards expected of posters here on ByzCath. In reviewing things, I think this thread needs to be closed and ask that when posting in other threads that cooler heads are needed in posting.
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Everyone baptized into Christ should pass progressively through all the stages of Christ's own life, for in baptism he receives the power so to progress, and through the commandments he can discover and learn how to accomplish such progression. - Saint Gregory of Sinai
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