Dear Dan and Remie,
I think you've hit on what is the point here.
To get my point across, I'm going to have a coin a phrase that I hope I'll be forgiven for if it gives a bad impression. That phrase is "Liturgical passion."
Traditional Catholics come to the Eastern Church not because they are attracted to Eastern spirituality or tradition, but because they are attracted to the liturgical passion that is celebrated there.
The five senses, the emotions, the sense of mystery and wonder - all these go to make up what I mean by "liturgical passion."
Prayer beads, crosses and other things for individuals like us

heighten that sense of passion.
They search for the passion they feel their Particular Church has lost. And they come looking for it in our Churches, sometimes imposing their sense of passion on ours and creating tension.
The modern-day secularist is consummately against passion.
Passions strangely warm the blood and make one less coldly logical. It makes one less calculating and prevents one from being totally able to predict everything in advance within a steel framework of rational order.
This is why I believe our Eastern spirituality has a great future here in North America.
"Feeling" is often experienced in harmful ways, drugs, sex etc.
When people have enough of the dichotomies, they will look to the Christian East.
They already are . . .
Alex