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Greetings All

My wife and I are now finding ourselves in unchartered waters (figuratively speaking) and would appreciate if somebody on this forum could offer an insight or advice on what is the best way to proceed. In short, we were both baptised Ukrainian Orthodox but are now seriously thinking about joining the Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church. Although we are not “there yet” ourselves (as we need to take further studies etc) we decided to baptise our newborn son as a Greek Catholic and approached the local UGCC priest with this request. To complicate the matters further we have also attended the Greek Catholic Liturgy on a number of occasions and have taken Communion there. The issues that we need to resolve therefore are:

Baptism

We understand our belonging to Orthodox confession should not be a barrier to our son's baptism as a Greek Catholic. Is that true?

Communion

Obviously, taking Communion in a non-Orthodox Church is strongly discouraged by the Orthodox doctrine. Because of our intention to eventually join UGCC, however, this really does not concern us. We are much more concerned with the legality of our actions from the UGCC perspective. We understand RC does not permit Orthodox Christians to receive Communion unless there are special circumstances (grave illness, etc) which obviously do not apply in our case. Would that also be the case with UGCC or are there any dispensations? (would not think so, but have to ask just in case)

Reaffirmation of Faith by the parents

Must admit this subject was discussed only briefly, but as we understand it us, parents and the Godparents (mixture of Catholics and non-Catholics) are required to go through the reaffirmation of Faith before baptismal ceremony can take place. Do we understand it correctly, and if so, can non-Catholics go through this ceremony with UGCC?


Any help will be greatly appreciated.


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Hi,

The Catholic Church (Roman, Byzantine, any other Catholic churches) do have open communion only with the Orthodox. So, the Roman Catholic Church can allow you to receive communion.

The Catholic Church already recognized the Orthodox Church as true sister Church (that is also a True Church, that contain valid Sacraments and Apostolic Succession). So, in ways, we are united spiritually thru the valid Sacraments.

It's only physically we are separated.

Of course, the Orthodox Church does not permit you to receive communion in the Catholic Church, because the Orthodox Church does not want to or try to acheive unity for the sake of Jesus Christ.

Why should you convert to Catholicism when your faith also is true? We should all "merge" into one Church instead of converting from here and there. We should all praise G-d together as one.

You can remain Orthodox and still pray for unity and receive Catholic communion. Perhaps, you can live as an example as an Orthodox Christian who desires unity.

G-d bless you and may He guide you where ever you feel inspired to do.

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With all due respect, I wish to raise the following point:

Of course, the Orthodox Church does not permit you to receive communion in the Catholic Church, because the Orthodox Church does not want to or try to acheive unity for the sake of Jesus Christ.

Who are you to judge that the Orthodox Church is not interested in striving for unification with the Church of Rome? Whilst I respect your opinions, it is presumptuous for you to make such a comment.

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Buchik:

I think you need to explore these questions with the priest in the UGCC parish where you have been attending. He will be the one who can give you authoritative answers to these questions.

As an Orthodox Christian, you understand the Eucharistic discipline of your Church. The Orthodox Church does not practice open communion. Neither does the Catholic Church. Communion means that you are already in full agreement and communion with the Church in which you are communing, as well as striving to be at-one with the Risen Lord you are receiving. Communion is not a means to the end of unity. It is a participation in unity already lived.

While there is a special permission for those Orthodox Christians to receive when they are a long distance from their own parish for a long period of time, you should check with the UGCC priest to see if it applies to you. My understanding is that the National Conference of Catholic Bishops has stated that this special provision is not something that is usually needed in this country.

May the Lord continue to lead you on your pilgrim journey.

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SPDundas:

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Of course, the Orthodox Church does not permit you to receive communion in the Catholic Church, because the Orthodox Church does not want to or try to acheive unity for the sake of Jesus Christ.
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With all due respect, I believe that you owe our Orthodox brethren an apology. The Orthodox Church has been on record as praying for and working for the unity that the Lord prayed for. That a Church takes the admonitions of the Apostles and the Fathers about guarding the precious treasure that is the Eucharistic Lord seriously should not in any way be taken as being against unity among Christians.

It is often easy for those of us who have grown up since 1950 to think that the relaxed discipline of the Catholic Church was always the way things were practiced. But it is not that way. In the 19th century, it was often the practice among Catholics that, even after confession, one had to ask permission of one's pastor to receive Holy Communion. And that permission was often not given every week in a row even if one had confessed.

It seems to me that one of the obstacles to unity at present is the Catholic Church's openness in this area. The Church's intention was that we should take on the discipline ourselves as adults, but the result has been a very casual attitude that scandalizes our Orthodox brethren.

My own opinion is that we have a lot to regain in this area from the strictness that the Orthodox Church still practices and gives us as an example. I often tell adults in a seminar that I teach that the attitude and the way in which we approach and handle the Lord of Glory when He is helpless in our hands is the way He will treat and handle us when we are in His Hands at our death. I use this as a wake-up call when we are tempted to a casual attitude.

In Christ,

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My Greek Orthodox (GO) wife and I are in a similar situation. I'm a Latin Catholic. We baptized our daughter in the GO church. I have recently conversed with a Ukrainian Catholic priest who indicated that he would administer Communion to my Orthodox daughter. I never asked about my wife but I'm sure if she wished she could receive.

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I apologize. But I can't be wishy washy about this issue.

However, it seems to be the attitude of many Orthodox who don't want to achieve unity or even TRY to look for reasons to stay divided. (i.e. Filoque issue..which isn't even an issue anymore!)

However, the Orthodox Church also have casual attitude in that area as well.

As I'm encountered by many Orthodox Christians who thought that Confession isn't "so important" before one receives Eucharist.

So, someone said about the "strictness" of the Orthodoxy. Well, let me tell you, The Catholic Church is far more stricter in many things than the Orthodox especially when it comes to faith and morals. The Catholic Church also pocesses ORTHODOXY.

The issue about open Eucharist to the Orthodox in the Catholic Church isn't even an issue of one is "strict" about it or whatever. It's about the TRUTH of Christian LOVE.

That the Catholic and Orthodox share one common Sacraments of LOVE (G-d) because it's valid. One can't be stricter than G-d Himself who unites us with VALID Sacraments.

So, the reason I said the Orthodox don't want to achieve Unity (shut Catholics with VALID Sacraments OUT) because they don't want to have Open Communion with the Catholic Church, the ONE and SAME Sacrament that the Catholic Church has..which is VALID...and the Sacrament of Eucharist is CHRIST Himself.

In the Orthodox Church: To Deny Catholics of Sacraments is to Deny the LOVE that G-d unites us with (Sacraments).

That's why Christ said..that we should not only Love G-d with all our hearts and soul, but love our neighbors (PEOPLE of G-d) as well.

SO, if the Orthodox want to have Open Eucharist, then that is a sign of Love of Neighbors just as G-d commanded. The Neighbor that also has VALID Sacraments.

How can one Love G-d but still shut other people out at the same time? Especially since Catholics also have VALID Sacraments? Is the Catholic Sacraments VALID or NOT?

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As to Baptism, while at least one god-parent must be a Catholic (of whichever variety), the other need not - and in general Orthodox godparents are welcome. I've never heard of any particular test of the faith of the parents, save the question of their willingness to bring up the child in the Faith. It is not uncommon for a Greek-Catholic priest to be asked to baptize the child of Orthodox parents, for a whole variety of reasons. Sometimes the parents ask that the Eastern Orthodox adherence of the child be noted in the Register; more often they do not.
As to Holy Communion, Eastern Orthodox Christians are welcome to receive Holy Communion in Catholic Churches. That may be a new development for the Latisn, but Greek-Catholics have normally practiced this for many centuries (probably since the Great Schism). Some Eastern Orthodox authorities find this annoying, and ask us to please cease and desist, because the Orthodox Christian receiving the Holy Mysteries from a Greek-Catholic priest either knows or should know that he is violating the discipline of his own Church. Greek-Catholics respond that if we are one Church (which we believe is the case), there is no such violation going on, and if we are not one Church, then we have no obligation to enforce someone else's rules. It's not dissimilar to the fairly frequent cases of people who are uhable to receivng the Sacrament of Matrimony in a Catholc Church going and getting married in an Orthodox Church instead. The Orthodox Church has no obligation to enforce Catholic marriage discipline. Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
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Yesterday I brought my 11 month old daughter up for communion in the Greek Orthodox church.
For fear of being denied (as I don't speak Greek) I did not go up to receive myself.
I onced asked a Greek Orthodox priest if I could receive the Eucharist in his church and his reply was the following.. I quote
"As per the receiving of the Holy Eucharist in the Orthodox Church, the answer to this is no, as a Latin Catholic.
I know that the Catholic Church would not say no to an Orthodox willing to receive, as we are the only Church the Catholic Church recognizes as being sacramental and of Apostolic Succession. But, the Orthodox do not allow the Catholics to receive, simply because we are not in communion yet, so why act like we are? Yes, the Eastern Rite Catholic services are very similar to the Orthodox liturgies. As I understand it,they were Orthodox for a long time, but changed for various reaasons and went under the pope. But the services and many traditions are the same. In Christ, Fr. Theologos"

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How can one Love G-d but still shut other people out at the same time? Especially since Catholics also have VALID Sacraments? Is the Catholic Sacraments VALID or NOT?
Well, if we deny Protestants communion does that mean we doesn't love God as well?

Aren't the Protestants our neighbours too?
Do they not belive in the same Christ as we do?

Since the Second Vatican Council the Catholic Church has held that the Orthodox churches are "true particular churches" with valid sacraments.

However, not all Orthodox Christians believe that the Catholic church is a true church with valid mysteries.

For example, the Orthodox Church of Greece and the fathers of the Holy Mountain baptizes anyone converting to the Orthodox faith, including Catholics.

To quote Bishop Kallistos Ware:

"Workers for Christian unity who do not often encounter this rigorist school should not forget that such opinions are held today by Orthodox OF GREAT HOLINESS AND LOVING COMPASSION" (emphasis mine)

If some Orthodox churches started practising open communion this would scandalize many faithful and cause division between the Orthodox churches.

Should one sacrifice the unity between one's brothers and sisters, in order to achieve unity with one's cousins?

Christian,

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[b] How can one Love G-d but still shut other people out at the same time? Especially since Catholics also have VALID Sacraments? Is the Catholic Sacraments VALID or NOT?
Well, if you exclude Protestants from communion, does that mean that you don't love God as well?

Aren't Protestants our neighbours too? Do they not belive in the same Christ as we doo?

Since the Second Vatican Council the Catholic Church has held that the Orthodox Churches are "true particular churches" with valid sacraments. However [/b]
Well because the Protestants don't have Sacraments, and if they do, it's invalid because of invalid Apostolic Succession (except for Church of English, which is still a big question mark).

The Orthodox have valid Sacraments. So that's a big difference. The Orthodox don't seem to be united when it comes to recognizing the Sacraments of the Catholic Church because some do and some don't.

If both Catholic and Orthodox Sacraments are valid, then that means there is a unity in mystical way. So let's go for the physical way if we are united spiritually and mystically. Because obviously G-d doesn't see it that way, only FALLEN men with closed minds/eyes see it that way. The Catholic Church is bending backwards TRYING to make an effort for Christian Unity...trying to make amends.

There is a Greek Orthodox Church that allows me to receive Communion. Can't say where and who. This Church, I feel very strongly united. Because the bond of Christ in the Sacraments are STRONGER than any schisms or human failings.

Holy Eucharist is Jesus Christ HIMSELF...Truly Immaculate Body and Truly Precious Blood. It's ONLY thru Jesus Christ, we become United.

So why do the Orthodox deprive the Catholics of Jesus in Communion? It is only thru Him that the schism will be HEALED for sure. Does the Orthodox not have faith in Christ? That He will heal the schism? Why are the hearts hardened and closed towards Catholics?

I only said that because of what the Orthodox act out to be. So, my comments do not reflect on the Orthodox who want to achieve unity since it's already in their hearts. My comments direct to those who don't want unity and those who have harden hearts to deny Christ to Catholics.

I have many Orthodox friends who feel the same way as I do, fortunately.

L-rd Jesus Christ, Son of G-d, the Healer of Mankind, have mercy on us all!

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Well, SPDundas, the way to unity must involve dialouge, no?

And it's not a good starting point for a dialouge to have the attitude you seem to have, that people who disagree with your point of view "does not love G-d","does not have faith in Christ" and "have their harts hardened and closed".

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I cannot name one Orthodox Catholic who does not think confession is unimportant. Our priest almost weekly explains to the congregation how important confession is and what the requirements are for receiving Holy Communion. We have Holy Communion information posted at the entrance way to our church for those visitors who may or may not be Orthodox Catholics and are visting for the first time. I would say that our precautions are much more strict than the Roman Catholic church. I cannot receive Communion as an Orthodox if I dont comply to what is required. I personally know Roman Catholics who have not been to church in years and forgot about confession who have received Holy Communion at two of the last funeral Masses I attended. Why, because they were not challenged and they probably thought it was the nice thing to do.

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//...As I'm encountered by many Orthodox Christians who thought that Confession isn't "so important" before one receives Eucharist.

So, someone said about the "strictness" of the Orthodoxy. Well, let me tell you, The Catholic Church is far more stricter in many things than the Orthodox especially when it comes to faith and morals. The Catholic Church also pocesses ORTHODOXY.,,,//

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Many thanks to everybody. Your guidance in this very important matter has been greatly appreciated. Of course, we will also talk to the priest in question, but it really helps to know how serious your transgression is before you do so.

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