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Brothers and sisters:

The abuse of others seems to be a pandemic. Sometimes it is psycholgical; sometimes emotional, sometimes social; sometimes sexual; sometimes a combination. It breaks my heart. I was asked to pray for those who are abused and for a special case that was revealed to me in confidence.

In Christ Who calls us to lift up those beaten and left by the side of the road, whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually,

BOB

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Lord Jesus Christ, our True God, You dwell in the highest and You care for the humble. You search the reins and the heart and clearly discern the most hidden things of men. Light from eternity, You are the ever-existing One, with You there is no shadow that veils nor hidden thing that Your Light cannot pierce. Come, O King Immortal and gently touch those who have been abused by parents, teachers, clergy, or others in authority over them. Deep within so many of Your brothers and sisters are the scars, the running sores, the rot left behind by memories of the experiences they have had at the hands of others. Some are wounded so deeply that they cannot love, they cannot feel, they cannot live except with a hard shell around them that cuts others off and seals them into the tomb of hopelessness and pain that feeds on itself and slowly destroys the capacity to receive Your grace. Lord, gently touch Your sons and daughters through us. Help us to reach out and to be so open and unconditionally accepting that the shells may be broken, the hurt may begin to be salved, and Your servants�our brothers and sisters in the human family�may begin to heal. Help us, Your servants, to be the Good Samaritan to our hurting brothers and sisters. Let us be gentle, but not intrusive; help us to know when to speak to and when to just BE there for them. Help us understand that sometimes Your broken servants need us to take two steps back when we think we should push ahead two steps, even when we think that push is gentle. Help us to understand that sometimes a hug is worth an hour of speaking. Help us to understand that sensitivity to the hurt is the first step and that we are probing psychological and spiritual wounds that are just as real as physical wounds. Help us to understand that prayer for Your suffering servants is always the right way because it is You Who will heal, even when it seems that we are so great a part in that healing. Help us also to understand that we may not know ourselves what our brothers and sisters need and to be open to letting You give us direction by the Holy Spirit.

Lord, You have allowed Your servants to be cast down. Raise them up by Your healing. You have allowed them to be struck and wounded deeply. Heal them by Your power, always gentle to those who are hurting. If You send the Holy Spirit to work through us, let Him give us what You know your suffering servants need.

Lord, we are all wounded by events and people on our pilgrim journey. Some of us are hurt more than others. Help us to be like Simon of Cyrene to those we see around us who are hurting. Through the prayers of the Mother of God, of the intercessions of the Holy Apostles, saints, martyrs, patriarchs, confessors, and other blessed spirits whom You have gathered into Your Kingdom, and of the intercessions of all the Holy Angels, Lord, hear our prayers on behalf of Your suffering servants, our brothers and sisters in You and in the whole human family. Amen.

Dear Bob,

As one that deals with those that are abused and neglected daily, I appreciate the prayer.

In IC XC,
Father Anthony+

Theophan,

A needed prayer...thank you.

james

Thanks for your prayer, Bob.

As a former counselor I have seen the traumatic effects of abuse/abandonment, and neglect and the need for the healing power of God.

In Christ,

Mary Jo

Mary Jo,

I hope you have not completely retired...

james

Recently we've been hearing the details of a case of abuse here in our area that ended with a man forcing a woman's young son to watch while he raped her and then forced her to watch while he killed her 6-year-old son after the rape.

This is just one of the stories that seem to multiply every morning when I turn on the news. Young children brutalized, teens abused, women, the elderly--you name the category and there are a dozen stories to fit.

We should continue to pray that this cultural and moral collapse will reverse itself. ISTM, we also need to preach with our lives and example that all human life is sacred and deserving of respect, support, and life.

In Christ,

BOB

My prayers go out to God that he will remove all evil and suffering in the world. I pray we all have strength to help and reach out to those who need us.

May God heal all the broken hearted, may he save those who are crushed, and raise up those who are bowed down. May God be merciful, heal and restore his wounded servants.