Dear Gordo,
Immorality is an unfortunate reality that most students will encounter and more often than not, engage in at college, atleast initially. Parents are either clueless or don't care. I always wonder, if money speaks, why parents are giving their hard earned money to put their children in these situations. Why can't we DEMAND seperate dorms for male and female and strict restrictions on visits? Our thousands of tuition dollars are literally playing into the agenda of moral destruction in this country, contributing to alcoholism, drug use, and promiscuity that leads to abortion and diseases.
I will never forget touring one well known college whose dorms had gone one step further. Not only dorm floors were co-ed--so were the bathrooms!!!
My heartfelt prayers, ofcourse for your relative. My prayers also that her parents are devout, aware of what goes on in those dorms', that they have established a connection of good communication with her, and that they will not cease to pray for her and to talk, and to talk, and to talk...
In Christ,
Alice