Hello and welcome!
I have a deep appreciation of Byzantine spirituality, such as the Jesus Prayer, icons, and the writings of the desert fathers. I was wondering if this is enough to consider exploring the Byzantine-Rite and possibility converting from the Latin Rite.
It might. However, we do not see that as a "conversion", because the Byzantine Catholics and the Latin Catholics are in Full Communion and that means we have unity in the essentials of faith.
If you decide to transfer officially from the Latin Church to the Ukrainian Church (or any other Catholic Church), then you'd go through a canonical transfer, not a conversion.
A quick bio, my dad was Ukrainian and my mother Polish; they both fell away from their faith and ethnicity. I was raised totally secularized in the United States. I was not even baptized until a year after my marriage to a devout, holy, Roman Catholic woman.
Hmmmm. I am not an expert in these cases, but if your dad was a member of the Ukrainian Greek Catholic Church, then you might already be one as well. Talk to your pastor about that.
I just don�t know if it�s selfish of me to consider such a change and the impact it may have on my family�despite us all being part of the Holy Catholic Church.
Well, I would strongly advice against you going through the canonical transfer alone.
What does your wife (and children if they are old enough) think about the whole thing?
Do they feel at home in the Ukrainian Church as well?
Would they be willing to transfer with you?
If they are unable to follow you in this right now, I'd suggest you keep your family together. There is always time to revise this decision later and you can visit the Ukrainian parish as frequently as you wish (and if you go with your family, all the better).
I'd give them the chance to get better acquainted with the Eastern Church before making any firm decisions.
Are there anyone other former Latin Rite folks here that have made such a change?
Well, I am Latin and staying Latin. However, there are a good number of people who have gone through a canonical transfer.
You're a man who made the decision to request Baptism as an adult. I can tell you: This canonical transfer thing is no biggie compared to that.
p.s., How does one cross himself in the Byzantine/Orthodox fashion and also how do I enter a church pew respectfully (instead of genuflecting)?
Don't worry too much about that right now, but Byzantines usually cross themselves by extending together the thumb, index and middle fingers (to represent the Most Holy Trinity) and folding the other two fingers together against the palm of the hand (to represent the Two Natures of Christ: True God and True Man), then the sign themselves on the forehead, chest, RIGHT shoulder and then LEFT shoulder. I think you should bow slightly while signing yourself.
About entering the church/pew, well, even in the Latin Church there is no one-size-fits-all. Here in Los Angeles, the directive is:
If the tabernacle is in the sanctuary, then on entering and leaving the sancturary you genuflect facing the tabernacle.
If the tabernacle is not in the sanctuary, then on entering and leaving the sanctuary you bow deeply towards the altar. On entering and leaving the Blessed Sacrament chapel, you genuflect facing the tabernacle.
Since the Blessed Sacrament is usually NOT reserved in the Byzantine Churches, genuflecting is not required and actually incorrect on all Sundays and throughout the Easter Season.
What I've seen is people signing themselves upon entry and then proceeding to the tetrapod (the small table placed between the pews (if there are any) and the iconostasis, there you venerate the icon with a profound bow, sign of the cross and a kiss. After that (or instead of it, if there is no tetrapod or no icon on it), you may go to the two main icons in front of the Church (one of Our Lord and one of the Mother of God) and venerate them by a profound bow and signing yourself in front of each.
However, don't sweat it. Nobody (including God) will frown on you if you simply enter with reverence and proceed directly to your pew.
On entering any church, it is more important you bow your heart than your head.
Shalom,
Memo